I dont understand. (weed)

[Mathew404]

I was over at my friends house and we were drinking gin. I only had about 2 shots so i wasnt drunk. Anways we all went outside to smoke and i had to be home by 12:30 am. my mom was reading a book when i got home and i was so stoned it wasnt even funny, but my mom had no idea. I put in a lot eye drops so i guess that helped. I even talked to her and she didnt notice. I have never been around someone high when i wasnt so i dont know if they act different. Anyone who has been sober around someone high, can you tell the difference?

[The Batman]

Maybe your mom did know but she didn't want to say anything. When my brother is high I can tell.

[krystalm]

Ha it depends, I use to come home on weed, booze and coke, and have full conversations with my mom. but i'm always hyper loud and always laughing...

[Mr. Smithers]

Most of the time:

They sound as if they are asleep but they are wide awake.

Their eyes are bloodshot. I can tell the difference with eye-drops.

Their voice is calm and mellow.

Stuff like that. If they sound sort of slow or relaxed.

Sometimes people act different.

If you drunk its sort of the opposite.

[alex_93]

what they talk about can give it away for example your not guna start rantng about world terrorism when your stoned. And the walk is often slower and more relaxed.

[total_blank420]

yeah, i can tell when my friends are high. they kinda act like they're drunk because they act tired and slur their words. Since it was late at night, your mom might have just thought you were very tired.

[byee]

Let me give you some food for thought here.

If you were 'So stoned it wasn't even funny', then either your mother grew up under a rock somewhere on Mars, or she's a total idiot. Any one of those accurate?


I didn't think so.

So, the real reason your condition didn't register with her is that she trusts you.

Silly girl.

At 14, you're probably new to drugs, and your folks don't suspect anything, b/c of the relationship they have with you, and perhaps this (obviously incorrect) assumption that they've taught you well and you wouldn't do drugs.

Sound about right?

So, when you do something that your folks obviously don't approve of, you have to ask yourself if violating their trust is really worth it. Because at some point, even the most naive parent figures it out, your days are numbered here. And in addition to being angry and concerned with you for doing something I assume they're against, they'll also feel betrayed, that their trust in you is shattered.

This will not be a good situation for you.

Think about it.

[serial-thrilla]

well he did put in eye drops which may have made it less obvious, and it was late so she may have been tired and not been paying much attention to how you were acting.

[MrPinnick17]

You probably were high but not stoned. I come home high all the time and nobody notices but probably because their not awake. I've fooled my friends before, and said I was sober when I wasn't. It's really easy for me to focus when I'm high, not that I can't normally. But same for another guy I know, he's not really my friend but he actually smokes to help him concentrate on homework and stuff.

It's just weird, all depends on how it messes with your mind. You knew you couldn't act stupid around your mom so you didn't.

[kerry]

Maybe your mom did know but she didn't want to say anything.

i agree :rolleyes:;)

[SirRawrsalot]

So, when you do something that your folks obviously don't approve of, you have to ask yourself if violating their trust is really worth it. Because at some point, even the most naive parent figures it out, your days are numbered here. And in addition to being angry and concerned with you for doing something I assume they're against, they'll also feel betrayed, that their trust in you is shattered.

This will not be a good situation for you.

Think about it.

Sam knows all. And he's right. You won't last long getting high. Your parent(s) will figure it out. It isn't worth it because what's better 1 having the trust of your parents to do things that you want to do and not getting high or 2 getting yelled at not getting high anymore and not being aloud to go out very often? Pot can ruin a person's drive to do anything. Every once in a while... I guess no one can make you stop, but please don't over due. Anything in moderation, and in this case moderation is as little as possible.


Edit:
AND YOU WILL SMELL BAD, REALLY BAD. Not as bad as cigs, but BAD.

[serial-thrilla]

its true, i think i lasted about a summer of smoking weed daily before my parents asked me about it. I didnt deny it. Im not ashamed at all about being a pothead. My parents accept it more so now because im an adult and they know that i'll do what i want. Make sure if you are going to come home high that you use spray/visine/gum and you probably wont get asked about it, but of course you always run a risk of getting caught. Just trying to help you minimize it.

[SirRawrsalot]

Getting caught would be a good thing for a FOURTEEN YEAR OLD. I don't want you to get in trouble so much as to save you from a bad habit and bad health. You may disagree, but in a few months maybe a year you'll start feeling the consequences and I can't stop you. You can make whatever choices you want, but you should educate yourself and think about every option before you chose. Chose wisely. The trust of your parents and your health and whether or not you get drunk or high are dependent upon your choice.

[iceyfresh]

i can prob. cuz i use to smoke alot. they seem to studder in speach and walk around alot

[Callwaiting]

If you're not looking for it, 99% of the time you won't notice when someone's stoned unless they have a long conversation with you. They tend to drone on and on in a monotone so it's hard to concentrate on what they're saying. I've never noticed a change in the walk, but your posture is sort of different from normal, similar to when you're tired.
Also, as long as you blow the smoke out of your nose nobody is ever going to smell it.

Getting stoned isn't that great anyway, when you have one too many and forget where you are and start hearing crap it just ruins your day, being high beats it by a mile.

[josh92]

I have went on a 3 hour drive to the beach with my parents after smoking 2grams of white widow. They didn't notice a thing....at least i dont think

[Neverender]

Let me give you some food for thought here.

If you were 'So stoned it wasn't even funny', then either your mother grew up under a rock somewhere on Mars, or she's a total idiot. Any one of those accurate?


I didn't think so.

So, the real reason your condition didn't register with her is that she trusts you.

Silly girl.

At 14, you're probably new to drugs, and your folks don't suspect anything, b/c of the relationship they have with you, and perhaps this (obviously incorrect) assumption that they've taught you well and you wouldn't do drugs.

Sound about right?

So, when you do something that your folks obviously don't approve of, you have to ask yourself if violating their trust is really worth it. Because at some point, even the most naive parent figures it out, your days are numbered here. And in addition to being angry and concerned with you for doing something I assume they're against, they'll also feel betrayed, that their trust in you is shattered.

This will not be a good situation for you.

Think about it.

harsh. thats cold..lol


anyways just dont do it again when you have to go home at 12. if you still do it, do it at a sleepover then you don't have to go home that night and go out and smoke and just say you were uptown

[A.J.]

It sounds like your abusing your moms trust. Im not saying get stoned all the time, but if you do, dont go home! sleep over at your friends!