I have to admit it.

[The Batman]

The reason behind a lot of this frustration and confusion is because of my ex girlfriend. I love that girl to death and I always will she was my first love and there is no way I can get over her. I want her back I just want things to be like they use to be. She knows I still like her and when I told her that I'm moving she keeps asking me why. What should I do?

[Gumleaf]

do you think that there is any chance that she will want to get back with you? because if she doesn't, then you have little choice but find a way to move on. there is no point sharing your love with someone who can't share it back otherwise you'll just feel like crap all the time. i won't pretend that its easy to move on from someone, but if they can't love you like you love then, then you will have to try.

[The Batman]

If I really tried I could get her back but I'm scared that I'll just end up getting hurt again. It's been 2 years and I always distracted myself whenever I thought of her but now it's just to much.

[Gumleaf]

well i guess then you need to decide whether its worth the possibility of having to deal with the hurt and pain of it again, or try and find a way to move on.

[Mr. Smithers]

Yes you really need to move on. It really isn't going to work out anymore. That time span has drifted. Yes, you may have had very good and passionate times with this person but you really need to change gears. You are just going to end up hurting yourself. If you think that you have a chance of this working out then go on ahead and feel free but my advice is just to move on. I wouldn't stay depressed and upset for that long if I were you.

[sabotaged111]

As hard as it is You NEED to move on, you owe it to yourself. Dammit it fezzie you always seem to post exactly what im going to say!!

[jensmith]

Yeah you need to move on. And your first error was telling her you still like her after breaking up with her. You just gave her all the power. Now she knows she can go out with who ever she wants and always has you just sitting in your room waiting for her. It is very simple just start dating other people. I can guarantee that there are other hotter girls out there and when they pay attention to you, you will forget about this girl. And dont say no because you will. : ) PM me if you have anymore questions.

[kerry]

You need to forget this girl.... Try to find another girl who feels the same way as you do....There is many other hotter and nicer girls for you.... You just have to find the right girl.....Try to become friends....Keep in contact as Friends no more than friends....You must not think about this girl....Don't tell this girl you still like her....You will end up hurt and empty....You shouldn't think of this girl

[byee]

Thomas, what happened that the relationship ended? Therein lies the answer to your dilemma.

Memory paints in soft pastels, as the saying goes, so with the passage of time, we tend to forget the 'bad' stuff, and highlight all the'good' stuff. If there hasn't been anyone new, even moreso.

Think back to the time it ended. Why was that? And, what's changed now so that if you did get back together, there's a better chance the outcome would be different?

If you cannot answer those questions based on some clear understanding that things have changed for the better, you're hanging on b/c you're lonely. That's a lousy feeling, for sure but an even lousier reason to go back.

[The Batman]

We've been messaging back and forth for a bit now and pretty much the chemistry is still there, I was joking around and asked her if I got my own place would she want to move in and she said yes, I asked if she was serious and she said yes.