hard coming out

[bloo ppl]

ok like a few hours ago i told one of my closest friends that im bi:yeah:. but now i dont what to do abt my other friends:confused:. so i was wondeing if some ppl w/ experince could give me some tips and dont tell me to read Coming Out: Tips for every occasion cuz thats how i first tried but then i chickened out. so ppl who have came out can you give me sometips?

[shikachunin]

well, it all depends on your school! if there is a lot of gay hate like at my school, then it will be hard to tell your friends! but if you really trust them, then there shouldn't be a problem. if they are true friends, then they won't care if you are gay(like me) or bi.

[robbiehay1]

Well i have only came out to my freinds right now, they all took it well, i just simply told them but youve got to remember if they dont accept it well then they wernt really your freinds

[kerry]

your TRUE friends will accept ur Sexuality ..... just tell them

[bloo ppl]

yeah ok im pretty sure they can accept me being bi and all but i just dont want them going around telling other ppl. b/c when your a teenager rumors spread fast and when thier true they spread faster. so how do i kno i can tust them to keep it a secret. the person i told i kno i can trust her since i/ve none her like forever. and yet i cant eventrust my sister. so im just so confused someone plz give me advice i can relay on better

[The Batman]

I think you should wait till your ready for the world to know. If these other friends aren't as close the first one then just wait because word might travel.

[krystalm]

i;m lame and told my closet friends over aim, i said "oh by the way i'm pansexual" just like that, but before i told them i had it on my myspace hoping they'd catch on.. but everyone else that i wasn't really close to i flat out told before i told them.. wierd.

[Mr. Smithers]

Yeah all the straight guys at my school have no problem with me. Even though their straight I still flirt with them.

Just tell them and if they don't agree or something goes wrong then they weren't really your friends were they?

[emecrazy]

well when i started telling my friends i told the ones i could trust more
but i didnt know how they would react soo i would say it like i was joking... so if it was a bad reaction i could be like ooh jk haha
it worked for me =]...

eh but now i moved and live with ppl who absolutly hate gays... so imma play it straight till im done with school...

[LateForTheSky]

I'd advise leaving it off. I've told a lot of people and now I'm getting talked about and I can't tell who it is. Only tell your most trusted friends, and find out their views on homosexuality first. Then other than that all you can do is spit it out. Not easy I know but it gets easier of time.