this girl.

[MrHappy]

hey everyone.
there is this girl i really like, but ive never talked to her, other than a forced hello.
shes beautiful, loves my kind of music, play instruments, and is just fun to be around.
but she was seeing someone, but i don't know if she still is, so ive stayed away from her.

i really like her, and have even dreamed of her.
what should i do? i want to be with her.

[Antares]

General Puberty & Sex Ed :arrow: Relationships & Dating

[4IrishJustice]

Well you can either talk to her about it, or spend the next several years wondering what could have been and beating yourself up because you were too chicken to take the chance. Trust me, it's better to take the risk and talk with her.

[MrHappy]

well i don't know how to, im not good with people unless they start the conversation.

[Acronychal]

Talk to her. Start with small conversation, then make expand. Add her on Facebook or something like that, people tend to open up a lot on the internet. If you've seen this girl in your DREAMS, you DEFINITELY have to talk to her.

[MrHappy]

ive had so many chances to befriend her, but i never do, i just shyly smile, then move on to something else.

plus, shes kind of out of my league.

[Acronychal]

Well, that's befriending her in PERSON. Try on the internet. People are so much more confident and open on the internet. But it all starts small. Start with basic small-talk, then work your way up.
Also, try really hard not to think negatively. Be a little confident, it'll show.

[kerry]

go up to her and say " hey how are you ? would you like to go to the movies with me ? " continue the converstaion from there

[jensmith]

Ok number one you have to be confident with yourself.... Girls can smell fear and it is not sexy. lol. Ever wonder why girls like the bad boys? Because one part of them is very confident and girls love that. Plus dont talk to her with the thought of I want to go out on a date. Just talk get to know her talk to her friends if you can to get more info on stuff she likes that you like or might like. But Number 1 !!!! Be Confident!! Good luck. PM me and let me know how it goes :yes:

[MrHappy]

go up to her and say " hey how are you ? would you like to go to the movies with me ? " continue the converstaion from there
:wub: I was going to do that with one girl. I went to ask her, and saw her with her boyfriend.

Ok number one you have to be confident with yourself.... Girls can smell fear and it is not sexy. lol. Ever wonder why girls like the bad boys? Because one part of them is very confident and girls love that. Plus dont talk to her with the thought of I want to go out on a date. Just talk get to know her talk to her friends if you can to get more info on stuff she likes that you like or might like. But Number 1 !!!! Be Confident!! Good luck. PM me and let me know how it goes :yes:
I know if I try I could get her, but part of me is a real jerk. Like, '"I can do this, she'll like me. I know it!". Then my heads like "yeah, if she likes unfunny idiots who are lazy.". I just can push myself to say "Hi, I'm *. You liked Irobot? It could have been better if blahdblah".

[Mr. Smithers]

Yes, as they say try and break the ice meaning try to start some sort of chemistry with this person. You can't always suggest or assume that she is going to make the first move because she probably isn't.

I would start off by saying some joke or some sort of funny remark because people like being in a relationship with someone who has a good sense of humor, or in this case don't mind talking to a person who can give them a laugh. Then start saying things like, what do you watch on TV or did you watch the news you know.

Just don't try to make yourself seem over obnoxious.

[byee]

You will never catch the fish if you never go near the water. How hungry are you?

Take a deep breath, make sure your hair is combed and you've brushed your teeth that morning, and go up to her, smile broadly, say 'HI!" and ask how she is. Then smile again, and walk away. If you're up to it, throw in a compliment. Certainly you can practice that and actually do it.

Whatever dialogue you have with yourself is thankfully not audible to her. Maybe it's also time to tell that particular little voice to shut up, it's getting in the way here.

I think the other major mistake guys make (and what freaks them out), is that we don't know what to do b/c we think we have to do too much the first convo, our expectations are totally unrealistic. Connections take time.

The first time you approach her should be quick and easy, nothing fancy. You have to build on that, it takes time to have a 'real' convo, the first few times are just ways to get your face near hers and get comfortable with it.

Start slow.

[TheRealMe]

Just talk to her, it will be worth it.