Question For Girls Only, Would You Date A Chubbier Guy?

[John55]

If you really liked the guy would you still go out with him if he was chubby? Not FAT, just bigger then "average' by like 10-15 pounds, or would it be a turn off?

[Gumleaf]

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[Acronychal]

Personally speaking, as long as I can still be attracted to him, I don't mind the weight. Actually, if anything some(not ALL) girls like chubbier guys because it makes them feel small or skinny. For me, I HATED dating a really skinny guy, because it always made me feel so FAT!
There's also an aspect of being attracted to who's attracted to you. A girl who might not be attracted to a chubbier guy, then finds out he likes her, might suddenly find herself thinking he's attractive.

[Zephyr]

I would still like him.
Personality, to me, is the first thing that makes somebody attractive.

[John55]

I would still like him.
Personality, to me, is the first thing that makes somebody attractive.

Being alittle extra chunky makes a guy more attractive lol? I thought EVERY girl now adays only wanted to go out with a guy if he had a 6 pack and a good personality LOL!!!

[Gumleaf]

Being alittle extra chunky makes a guy more attractive lol? I thought EVERY girl now adays only wanted to go out with a guy if he had a 6 pack and a good personality LOL!!!

if that was true i would be permantly single. :P

[kerry]

i dont care if a boy is super skinny or a lil chubby and i have no problem with them !

[Serenity]

Ok honestly you guys need to chill out lol. You're all omgoshhhh I need a six pack and a perfect tan or I'll never get a girlfrieeeeend! But the fact of the matter is, if us girls are gonna be that picky and ONLY date guys with a super hot body, the perfect smile, AND an amazing personality to go along with it, WE'RE the ones who are gonna be permanently single.

It's all about how you portray yourself- do you put effort into your appearance? Do you have some self confidence? Are you comfortable with the way you look? It doesn't matter so much if you're a stud, but it does matter if you're gonna take the time to comb your hair, wear clothes that aren't wrinkly, etc. It makes a difference if you don't stare at the ground when you walk, assume no one will ever like you, etc. You have to start out by understanding and believing that you're a great person and that that isn't changed by your body. If you believe it, others will believe it, and then you're pretty much home free.

[ShatteredWings]

haha it seems guys stress just as much about getting a girlfriend do they now?

honestly it woud'nt bother me..

i know i stress too much about my weight
but on other people, a couple extra pounds seems to make them a little more attractive, if that makes sence

[kerry]

Being alittle extra chunky makes a guy more attractive lol? I thought EVERY girl now adays only wanted to go out with a guy if he had a 6 pack and a good personality LOL!!!

most guys have to go out with a skinny girl ! but not all boys ! i say like my BF doesnt mind me being a lil overweight ...... every boy where i live only goes out with a skinny girl except me bf .... if a girl is chubby where i live you dont really get a bf !

[BeautifulSilence]

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i know i stress too much about my weight
but on other people, a couple extra pounds seems to make them a little more attractive, if that makes sence

Me and Gywnitha are so alike :D

I think there's too much media pressure on kids to make themselves look (what the media catergorises as) PERFECT...

E.g. Girls: We gotta have perfect hair and absolutely NO blemishes, oh and we shouldn't be able to pinch more than 1/4 inch of fat, otherwise no guy will ever find us attractive!
And boys: If you don't have defined biceps, pecs and abs and you're not 6ft tall no gal is ever gonna want a date with you!

Now, d'ya see how stupid this seems? You should ALWAYS remember that if it wasn't for all of these "imperfect" (ordinary) people, those "perfect" celebrities would be just like the rest of us. Plus, they've got the money to spend on cosmetic surgery and other shit we can't afford, so why should we be expected to maintain anything anywhere near 'perfection'???

Sorry, sorta turned into a rant :whoops:

[John55]

Me and Gywnitha are so alike :D

I think there's too much media pressure on kids to make themselves look (what the media catergorises as) PERFECT...

E.g. Girls: We gotta have perfect hair and absolutely NO blemishes, oh and we shouldn't be able to pinch more than 1/4 inch of fat, otherwise no guy will ever find us attractive!
And boys: If you don't have defined biceps, pecs and abs and you're not 6ft tall no gal is ever gonna want a date with you!

Now, d'ya see how stupid this seems? You should ALWAYS remember that if it wasn't for all of these "imperfect" (ordinary) people, those "perfect" celebrities would be just like the rest of us. Plus, they've got the money to spend on cosmetic surgery and other shit we can't afford, so why should we be expected to maintain anything anywhere near 'perfection'???

Sorry, sorta turned into a rant :whoops:

So true, thanks haha!!!

[kitkat92]

It really wouldnt bother me... I like a person based on their personality =)

[Kallvin]

I am 5'8 and 130 pounds, I am on the skinnier side but not overboard.
My girlfriend is 5'6 and 120. We are perfectly happy and she doesn't mind that I don't weigh very much. It's all in the person, simple as that.

[CTRL.ALT.the leet]

Im chubby an no girls like me.
It sucks. :confused:

[BlackenedSilver]

Yea I would!! I judge guys on their personality not looks!!

[DarkWingedAngel]

it is personality that counts not looks

[Hales]

Well, my bf is a bit chunky, but weight has no matter to me- im a bit chunky myself- but we think eachother is cute and we like eachothers' personalities

If u really like soemone, weight isnt gonna be a deciding factor
I know that to be true :]

[Sapphire]

I actually prefer my guy to be a bit chubbier. IMO skinny guys are overrated.

[dudesweet101]

Im a chubbier guy. Im super flirty. And my gf now started hangin out in my group and she is really pretty and skinny. So I started hittin on her and tellin her how pretty her eyes were. Eventually she started likin me not just cause of the way I look because I treated her really nicely and made her feel really good. Now we've been dating for 6 months and everyone ask me how I get a girl like her.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

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