Wat 2 do???? i need advice (dnt we all)

[icegemz]

well my question is gonna mke me sound slutty but i'm not. I'm still a virgin at 17 and i live in the uk so i'm legal. neway i feel like i'm ready 2 lose it but no boyfriend. that i dnt mind much neway theres this mate of mine who i like quite a bit. i wanna lose it 2 him but i dnt wanna go out wiv him cuz of the friendship. do i ask him and how do i bring it up?

[nullandvoid123]

if you want to preserve the realationship, then id advise not to, but do what you want to do.

[ScotsGirl]

Can i ask, do you have feelings for your friend but youre scared that you may lose your friendship? ...or, based on your feelings towards him, do you only see him as a friend and no more?

Anyway, as far as losing your virginity goes, whats the rush? So you feel ready to have it, but wouldnt you rather wait for someone special to share that with?
Do you really want to look back in 20 years time and say that you lost your virginity to a friend you were using for sex, and that he was using you aswell?

Its something you will probably never forget, so my advice to you is to think hard about things....its not like you can re-virginise, right? :P

xxx

[Hi i am jon]

i agree with her ^

[Elokyn]

yay lynne! I agree with lynne (scotsgirl) as well. There's really no rush.