Ugh pretty big problem kinda need advice here

[MarkD176]

Well recently this past thursday my girlfriend came up with the idea of me going over her house when her dad wasnt home after we did this one thing for sports. I said i was just going for a walk. i am 14 and she is 15, well we never really got privacy alone and the day before she was over my house with my mom there but in the other room and i actually ended up fingering her. then it was like the hormones were basically out of control. then over her house we were up in her bedroom and i did that again and then we had dry sex if you know what i mean, we both then took our shirts off and i was basically feeling her up. the worst thing possible happened next her dad got home from work alot earlier than usua; and caught her on top of me with no cloths on. im lucky he was such a cool guy that he didnt yell or scream at me, and i told my parents about what had happened and i went back and apologized. im now grounded for one week and so is she. im scared that what happened could of ruined our relationship, but i hope we can get passed all of that and talk about it more later, just if anyone has any advice it would be appriciated here

[byee]

I don't know if this ruins the relationshiop with her, but it def affects the one with her dad! He gets high marks here for keeping his cool in what had to be a very difficult moment. Expect that for now and forever he won't be trusting the 2 of you to be alone. And for gosh sakes, don't even attempt anything sexual in his house, even if he's not at home, or plans to be home.

[sabotaged111]

im not so sure about anything but one thing you must know! NEVER AND I REPEAT NEVER DO ANYTHIN LIKE THAT IN HER HOUSE ITS TOO RISKY!!

[MarkD176]

oh yeah i know that now, her dads a really cool guy though like he knows what its like to be teenagers and stuff and he still likes me which is a really good thing and this ended up actually not ruining our relationship

[kerry]

I think you should be greatful that her dad is a chilled man .... Hope it doesn't happen again !

[MarkD176]

Yeah it would not be smart to ever do something like that again. I am really lucky her dads a chilled guy i could of been in alot more trouble than i got myself into. Also she did get grounded till this friday and so did i but shes allowed to text for an hour and a half a day. well sunday she texted me and we talked and im like well since your going on vacation and stuff next week the only day wed get to hang out is saturday and shes like ok i donk now thinking she meant she doesnt know if she can so i said me either and shes like no im not sure if i want to hang out with you then im like oh. i also did say i loved her and shes like well idk. then as youd think i got worried cause she would say i love you too everytime . there was more to that convo and she stressed me out and im like your really stressing me out but i dont wanna break up with you and shes like if you want to you can:(. i didnt do it and she didnt break up with me, so then that night she calls me cause she was at her cousins and we were on the phone for about 3 hours. she did say she loved me and she said she meant it, she also said it was that time of the month so i mean idk if thats why she was acting all weird earlier in the day.

[sabotaged111]

Awsome, glad things are working out for you now

[Supermario64]

ya, u sure got lucky with her dad... and i hope u guys can work things out, i can see why she would maybe wanna end things because of what happens + it was her time of the month... don't bedroom doors have locks??

[DarkWingedAngel]

glad u did good but next time ask her dad if it is ok to do that with her then u won't get intruble