3 questions. u.u

[Manifest Destiny]

Okay. These are weird but...


1. Is it bad that i can't feel my cum dribbling out? I know i'm done, but i don't feel it...coming out. >.<


2. Why don't tampons fit in there? I've had my period for 2 years now and they still just don't fit.


3. I'm gonna be swimming in school for half of the year, and if tampons don't start to fit by September, what can i use to hold the blood in?

[ThatCanadianGuy]

1. Actually only a small percentage of girls "cum" similarly to guys (that is; they ejaculate fluid sorta like vaginal lubricant). It's something like 10 or 15% of girls that can actually do this. So if you can't, then you're in that other 85 to 90%. So nothing's wrong there; good thing you're able to tell when you've had an orgasm still.

2. Tampons don't "fit" probably due to the fact that your hymen is still intact. The hymen is like a flap of skin "closing up" the vagina. The hymen is what gets torn during intercourse or masturbation (also known as "popping the cherry"). When you tear your hymen some bleeding can occur along with mild discomfort (if it hurts REALLY bad then you should stop what you're doing). The hymen is torn most easily when something enters the vagina (i.e. a penis, dildo, fingers or even tampons). It's a bit unusual that you're hymen hasn't torn yet. Have you tried putting tampons in before? If it started to feel uncomfortable and you stopped, you were probably pushing the tampon against your hymen and it just didn't tear since you just took the tampon out.

3. You should be using tampons for this; answer #2 will explain why they haven't fit (I hope) and maybe that will clear up why they haven't fit so far.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

The hymen does not "close up" the vagina, and it doesn't really "break". It's a tight ring of tissue around the opening, (meaning the opening is still present, it's never covered up) and it typically stretches out a bit after you've been using tampons, having sex, or even sometimes sports can do this. In some girls, the tissue tears a little bit, which is where the blood and pain comes from that's associated with losing your virginity. This shouldn't make using a tampon impossible though.

Try buying "slimfit" tampons. They're skinnier, designed for teens and small-stature women, and might be easier for you to use. Just relax (tensing up can work against you, causing your muscles to push against the tampon), gently spread things open with the fingers of your other hand (it's easier to put a tampon in if your lips aren't in the way), and aim for the small of your back. It may take a few tries, and it'll be uncomfortable the first time you get it in, but it should work.

[notsure101]

1 dont worry its fine

2 because ur hymen is probly small and tight

3 trie smaller and skinnier tampons

[kerry]

1. Not many girls can "cum" .... It is mostly boys who can cum ! don't worry it is normal
2. see jessi's answer
3. buy smaller ones skinner ones

[AMERICANelite123]

1, its totally normal not all girls can "cum"
2, well maybe ur hyem is to tight or watever lol
3, maybe u should just try again but if it hurts too much dont do it
also for 3 there is this cup thing u place in and it has a ring that bends to insert and it has like a rubber catcher so if ur swimming it'll work my family says they r better then tampons sometimes
btw the thing is by always if i rember the name i could pm u

[Zephyr]

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