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BornActor
June 26th, 2008, 12:49 PM
Ok...
So I asked this friend if she wanted to see this movie with me but she already promised that she would go with these other two girls. So I asked one of the girls via the internet if it would be ok if I went with them and she never responded. Then, I asked the same girl in person and she said sure. But, now every time I ask her about it on the internet or even bring it up she just ignores the message completely. Right now, I don't even care about the movies any more. I can't go anyway coz I don't have a ride I just want to know what I should do? I kinda want to ask her why she didn't just tell me she didn't want me to go. What do u guys think I should do? Thanks in advance

Bobby
June 26th, 2008, 12:54 PM
It just sounds to me like your constant asking was probably annoying her, so she just started to ignore it. Try not asking over and over and over.

BornActor
June 26th, 2008, 01:01 PM
i only asked her twice once when she ignore me and another when she said yes. Then later I brought up the movie, the movie itself not going to the movie and she ignored it.

kerry
June 26th, 2008, 03:21 PM
you should ask her once again and say " so who are you going to the movies with ? you keep changing your mind and im getting confused !

byee
June 26th, 2008, 11:33 PM
That's the problem with asking one of the three people who are going, there's a chance they cannot speak for everyone. And, if you do it online (or some impersonal way), they can just 'ignore' you.

Depending on your history with her/them, you can either call again (use the phone, silly) if you know her/them real well. If not, forget it, and next time learn that you need to use the phone so they can have an immediate convo with you, and make sure you speak eith the 'spokesman' for the group.