experimenting with other guys?

[bender]

I'm a 16 year old guy and for a long time now I've been thinking of experimenting with other guys. I have had a few chances to but could never get myself to actually do it. I am worried I will regret it later. I definately prefer girls but I do love gay porn and find some guys attractive. Can anyone give me some advice? And has anyone had any similar experiences?

[Zephyr]

I've had my fair share to experiment with other girls,
But I myself have passed them up besides making out.
I know that I just couldn't do it.
Maybe you're the same, perhaps not.

If you experiement, you experiment.
You're young.
If you think you're going to regret it,
Then simply don't.
But if you can't resist,
Then do.
It's not like the world is going to find out,
Unless the other guy has a big mouth.

[Ryandel]

I've had my fair share to experiment with other girls,
But I myself have passed them up besides making out.
I know that I just couldn't do it.
Maybe you're the same, perhaps not.

If you experiement, you experiment.
You're young.
If you think you're going to regret it,
Then simply don't.
But if you can't resist,
Then do.
It's not like the world is going to find out,
Unless the other guy has a big mouth.


Agreed, I never really had a problem with this, it was more of trusting them. But I agree with steph.

[Texmex21]

yeah i experimented w/ other guys when i was younger, its just ur hormones

[Φρανκομβριτ]

no shame in experimenting. In fact, it's actually quite normal. If you want to, go for it, but if you don't feel like it, don't. It's as simple as that.

[bender]

I'm pretty sure one day I will have sex with another guy. But I really dont know when.

[daking]

Your probably just curious. Nothing wrong with that.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Don't worry about experimenting its healthy and theres nothing wrong with it.

[sabotaged111]

nothing wrong with it

[marktheman]

I do stuff with my friend all the time. I'm 13 and he's 15. We've been friends for 5 years. Neither one of us is gay. We just do it because it feels good.
I think as long as you both are comfortable with it, there's nothing wrong with it.

[crash007]

Go with your instincts. If the opportunity arises again dont feel obligated to do it. If you want to try it, then try it. If you say your going to do it at some point in your life then I would try it because when you get older it gets more complicated. Your 16 and probably still going through hormones and all that fun stuff. Just make sure your safe and that you are comfortable doing it.

[dogman]

i really want to, but like u i think, am scared, maybe about the fact it could been seen as gay, im not sure

[Joshie]

i j/o with a friend when i was younger it felt good

[curiousteen]

im in a similar predicament as u. i had my chances and could have taken them but i was to shy and like u said worried to do it and then later regret it. but i think its up to u to choose if u want to experiment or not.

[bender]

Thanks for your replies guys. I still havent tried anything yet, but I'm think I will soon.

[curiousteen]

good luck

[Zan0ra]

Well I thought I might get the chance today, apparently not. i'm gonna be at the beach all day. Are well, he can come round another time. And good luck dude.!

[TSchulz]

dont worry its normal.yes i have tried experimenting with other guys before and i later did slightly regret it but it was very fun so go ahead and have some fun dude. i looked it up and asked many people if it is normal and they say yes.so dont worry about it and have some fun.

[byee]

This question is asked frequently, and only you can answer if it's OK for you, we can't give you permission to do something that you can't seem to bring yourself to do. I would point out to you that you seem ambivalent about this, and it might be best to at least resolve your ambivalence about it before doing it. Your ambivalence is telling you something, it's always best to listen to the message your feelings are giving you.

The other issue with 'Experimentation' is what to do after the experiment, after you've done whatever it is that you've wanted to do. It's easier if you do it and don't really like it, you just chaulk it up to experience, you've satisfied your curiosity. But, what if you like it? (And the 'It' can be anything, not just sexual things). Are you prepared to continue the activity? Have you thought carefully about the potential consequences and complications?

Doing something once isn't always such a problem. It's the Pandora's Box it can open that becomes an issue. Think beyond the act, think about the day after and use that info, too, to determine if *whatever* it is you're contemplating doing is worth it.

[Zan0ra]

i'm going of topic slightly but I still wanted to share it with you.

Instead of getting dropped of at 5pm we extended the time to 8 pm. I showed him this site and he took the stage test. Then we went outside to the allotment shed. The convo shifted towords masturbation. He began asking me personal questions which I answered and asked him the same thing.

When we got to the shed. It was ransacked. So we got angry and began destroying it more. The whole afternoon walking back that's all we where talking about it. Even though I have known him for 4 years. We got a better understanding of each other. i'm going round his soon. cant wait. :D

All in all. we never got to jack of. But id the shed wasent destoyed then it would be almost certain that we would.

[Joe3140]

I've been wanting to experiment like you're describing but I have no idea how to bring it up. I have no idea what my friends' reactions would be like. How do you guys go about bringing this stuff up?

[TwistedVision]

I have done it many times... my frend asked me the first time while i was sleeping in his house... so we did it... The other time me and my frend wanted to do it once and we did it. For me i ddnt have any problems later with them.

[optimashprime]

just ask them and they may say yes

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah just ask :)

[scottyTmr]

My best friend and I are very close. We love drama and often act and this usually involves touching, and lots of time I play a male and he plays a female, and we hug. One night I stayed over and we stayed up late, we were bored so he suggested I give him a massage. We were both in pajamas and wearing shorts. I started massaging his feet, then calfs, then I started on his thighs. He looked a little odd. I kept massaging his soft thighs and kept going higher up his shorts until i could feel his balls. I grabbed his penis, that had gone hard, and gave him a quick wank. It was a very fun night.

[The Batman]

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