Eh, issues.

[yayMaddy]

There's not one thing that I fear more than homosexuality. All my life I've had crushes on people like Ben Affleck and my male-friends from school. I know that I've really felt a lot for the boys that I've liked. I have a boyfriend and he's amazing, but my feelings change for him on a daily basis.
I've come to believe that my feelings of confusion are from hormones and I've begun to forget the feelings for the guys I've liked previously in my life.

I don't want to forget my feelings for them and it worries me to think that my feelings may be changing for guys altogether..
I still have dreams about my crushes and wub them a lot. (Not as much as the boyfriend, haha.)

But I'm still worried. I have a feeling that this all hormonal because I've posted another thread that relates and was found to be related to hormones.

dkljklfd.

[MoveAlong]

how old are you? Asking any sexuality, puberty, or development question is difficult to answer if you we don't know your age. if you're older, it might be less a hormone thing. If you're younger, it might be more of a hormone-related thing.

But I really dont' understand what you're asking...are you confused whether you're gay or straight? Or gay and nothing? or what?

[Ryandel]

how old are you? Asking any sexuality, puberty, or development question is difficult to answer if you we don't know your age. if you're older, it might be less a hormone thing. If you're younger, it might be more of a hormone-related thing.

But I really dont' understand what you're asking...are you confused whether you're gay or straight? Or gay and nothing? or what?

Ya I got confused there too. Oh and too help make things accurate. She's a girl so she probably means Lesbian or straight. Also can you somewhat tell us what you're really asking.

[MoveAlong]

She's a girl.

really?? gah, see I didn't even know that. we need to know your gender when you ask these kind of questions too or our advice is going to sound screwed up

[Ryandel]

Agreed Flex, I thought she was a male too. Anyways, I seem to get your question.
Well this is how I see you're question right now:

Lately I've been losing interest in guys. Unlike before when I had huge crushes on people like Ben Afleck and stuff. I'm confused if I might be losing interest in guys totally. I'm just really worried because this might be a hormonal problem. Just like from one of my older post when it was just hormones after all.

I think that's your question in shorter thing. Correct me ASAP if this is wrong so we can answer you please.

[yayMaddy]

Sorry guys,
First off, I'm a girl and have liked guys all my life and have been happy and positive.

A little before my 15th birthday my feelings started to change a bit and I don't know what to do with myself.

I've felt love for guys before and have a boyfriend currently.
He and I are fine but my feelings for him are also fluctuating. Even during the same day, when he first comes over I'm happy and excited to see him... Then later on I feel tired and could care less.

Another issue is that I have the feeling that he likes me more than I like him.


The point is, I'm worried if my feelings for guys are decreasing completely.
I don't think it's possible to change your mind on liking men, which leads me to believe that this is completely hormone-related.

Sorry again for the misunderstandings.

[Oblivion]

There's not one thing that I fear more than homosexuality. All my life I've had crushes on people like Ben Affleck and my male-friends from school. I know that I've really felt a lot for the boys that I've liked. I have a boyfriend and he's amazing, but my feelings change for him on a daily basis.
I've come to believe that my feelings of confusion are from hormones and I've begun to forget the feelings for the guys I've liked previously in my life.

I don't want to forget my feelings for them and it worries me to think that my feelings may be changing for guys altogether..
I still have dreams about my crushes and wub them a lot. (Not as much as the boyfriend, haha.)

But I'm still worried. I have a feeling that this all hormonal because I've posted another thread that relates and was found to be related to hormones.

dkljklfd.
The writing in Bold at the bottom is the quick explanation

Well you said your afraid of homosexuality, yet you haven't said ANYTHING about any feelings for women. When your going through puberty your hormones and feelings are like a roller coaster, and they change a lot. Just because you don't seem to like your male friends as much as you previously did, that doesn't automatically mean you'll grow up to be lesbian.

If you want to have more feelings for your boyfriend and previous crushes, i would advise thinking about what you like about them, and why they are/were crushes. If you decide that you prefer females to males physically, mentally, and emotionally then you will most probably be homosexual, but since you say you have feelings for men, and you haven't mentioned any feelings for women, I will assume its just a small decline in feelings for men, and to make it simple, during puberty feelings change, and you will have different feelings for different people, sometimes feelings that make you like them more, sometimes that make you like them less.

[yayMaddy]

I posted another thread about my situation a while back, then, I had no boyfriend and was basically exploding.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=18552

I've had some symptoms that would lead that I have a slight, sudden, sexual attraction to females. I have never had it before and it seems illogical because the same symptoms have occured when watching dogs and my horse. (wtf?) I would never forward these feelings in any way and do not seek any relationship with a female other than the obvious frienship.
This leads me to believe that my feelings have been caused by fluctuating hormones.

[yayMaddy]

Guys, please, this is killing me.