My BF

[MattHutzell]

Ok. So I gots an internet BF, and we been dating for month I think... and I dont think either of us really cares about the other anymore. I mean, he lives too far away to drive, and neither of us can anyway, but we rarely talk anymore. We will go days without even saying hi, and when we do talk it's how have you been, good you, good, then I love you. But I'm pretty sure I dont and I'm pretty sure he don't anymore. So what do you guys/girls think? Should I break it off or give it time or something? And IF you do say break it off, PLEASE give me ways too. lol I suck at breaking up with ppl, my heart is too big. :P

[Camazotz]

If you dont love him, then you should break it off. Say something simple like, "Hey man, its just not working out. We dont have enough time for each other. Im sorry."

[MattHutzell]

I know but like... I don't wanna be mean.. an I know that isn't mean at all, but like... he'll still be hurt. lol But I guess I have to eventually.

[mr. self destruct]

For some reason, those internet relationships never seem to work out lol. Just tell him that you don't think it's working out, and the way you feel about whats going on.

[byee]

Ok, call me old fashioned, but exactly how does someone actually date online?

Anyways, if the 2 of you have drifted apart and rarely speak, I'd think that in and of itself speaks to the end. Sometimes, the obvious doesn't really need to be said, and maybe this is one of those times.

[DaretoFallup]

im actually dating someone online too, for like 6 months now, and its working out quite well :D but if you don't love the person break it off, all i got to say, just tell him that u dont think hes interested in u vice versa anymore and tell him that ur gonna break up .........that probably wont help cause im confused about what i just said, sorry

[Gumleaf]

i can tell you that the sooner you break up, the better it will be for both of you. with the odd exception, online relationships just don't work and the main reason for that is that no matter how much you think you know them, you don't really. you also miss out on that physical contact, which for a lot of people is an important part of a relationship. i really do think you should break up, but you will cause less hurt to the guy if you break up sooner rather then later, and that you explain your feelings and the reasons why you want to break up.

[kerry]

Telll him how you feel and it is not going to workout....sorry
i did it once but the boy drifted away

[MattHutzell]

Ya I know. And I actually don't like internet relationships that much but where I live there are no gay or bi ppl. Well I asked then one out but "we wouldnt be right" or something. So I really have no choice. But ya I guess I will break it up eventually.

[MattHutzell]

I think Imma do it. :( >.<

^like 4 minutes later^

I finally did it... but he has yet to answer me. Prolly ignoring me.

^nother update, though you don't care I'm just talkin to myself XD^

He didnt care. Told him and he just "Ok" and thats it... *shakes head* God I idiot... oh well.

[notsure101]

leave him

[MattHutzell]

Yup I did last night.

[notsure101]

Yup I did last night.

good for u

[kerry]

well done and dont double post please !

[Maverick]

well done and dont double post please !He posted a day later so thats ok.