Family probs

[Kuervo]

maybe some of you have parents that are divorced, like mine, and that they each have their own boyfriend, girlfriend. But has your dad's girlfriend had a baby with him, yet? my dad has. It's hard to me especially if my mom doesn't know about the baby yet. i'm always thinking, what if my mom finds out about the baby, and what if she finds out about it. it's driving me nuts. but anyway, have any of your guys' parents like this?

[Gumleaf]

boys puberty - f & f

[Ryandel]

Ya I can relate. My dad left me and my mom when I was 1-2 years old. It's still hard for me to move on even though I'm much older since then. It's weird when I see or hear about someone having the same problems as me. Makes me feel like I'm not going through it alone. Currently I know where my real dad is. We keep in touch but not much. Last year I found out he had a son 3 years younger than me. I wonder too what'll happen if my mom knows that I know where my dad is, and that we've been keeping in touch.

If you ever need someone to listen or to talk to. I'm here. You're like a lil bro to me :)

[Kuervo]

Thanks. But my dad didn't leave me. he actually stayed with me and my lil bro. we stay with him and he's a great dad. My new born sister is just 3 months old, but i am afraid if my mom finds out.

[Ryandel]

Ya... but still don't worry about it too much. There's some thing I can't fully explain about it. But it's a parent thing.

[byee]

Yeah, it's those loyalties you feel, they cause probs. You love both your parents eventhough they obviously don't feel the same about eachother. So, you don't want either to get hurt.

Remember, your feelings are unique here, you love both of them, so you're protective. But, they're divorced, so they see/experience eachother differently, they've moved on, and are probably more comfortable with all this than you are.

Tell your dad you're uncomfortable with this, that it feels like you have to keep a secret. Maybe he can reassure you that it's OK, or even tell your mom so you don't have to feel the awkwardness.

[Ryandel]

Yeah, it's those loyalties you feel, they cause probs. You love both your parents eventhough they obviously don't feel the same about eachother. So, you don't want either to get hurt.

Remember, your feelings are unique here, you love both of them, so you're protective. But, they're divorced, so they see/experience eachother differently, they've moved on, and are probably more comfortable with all this than you are.

Tell your dad you're uncomfortable with this, that it feels like you have to keep a secret. Maybe he can reassure you that it's OK, or even tell your mom so you don't have to feel the awkwardness.

Thanks for helping him out... Means a lot to me

[Rutherford The Brave]

I know what its like, my mother died when I was 2. Then my dad left me when I was 7 then about a 1/2 of a month ago my dad shows up with a new wife and 2 kids, it hurt alot.

[Ryandel]

I know what its like, my mother died when I was 2. Then my dad left me when I was 7 then about a 1/2 of a month ago my dad shows up with a new wife and 2 kids, it hurt alot.

Oh speaking of which can I ask something relating to that? I'm just curious if it's just me.

[Rutherford The Brave]

sure?....

Still you have to just make the best of life, when I was a kid I lived with my grandparents and I worked on their farm :D.