why ????

[kerry]

:mad::mad:
Well my sister who is 17 she can do and say what she likes to me and she geets away with it. When i do it back i get caught and i get the blame for actually everything. Im soooo close to doing something i shouldn't. Im being pushed away and i just get really upset... It doesn't matter what my sister does to me. Asusual i get the blame i feel like swearing at my mum.... My mum seems to think my sister is some sort of angel and im the devil. I hate the people around me they are pushing me away from my family. My mum is so horrible to me and i just want to cry.... No one really understands me except you lot on here.... I just want to punch or hit my mum as it is her fault the way my sister is like the way she is as my mum brought her up that way! Even my older sister can be horrible to me but ..... she is not as horrible as the younger sister! i hate my mum and sister at the moment i just want to hit them. My mum just see's me as the bad one out of my sisters. Also whatever i do it is wrong and it just makes me reallllly fucked off and they can't see why? It is soooo annoying being the youngest espically with two older sisters. My life feels like i have dissappointed myself! :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: i am moody and mad 24/7 and ANGRY what can i do not to do somehing i regret

[Ryandel]

Hmm, if you ever need to talk I'm here, you have me on contacts so ya.
As for your situation here's some things you can do to avoid or that might/will help solve this dilemma.

Try:
-Tell you're mom how you feel, deep inside.
-Talk to a counselor
-Tell a friend who'll listen, a listener will help you alot when a problem arises in ones life
-Hang out with friends alot, do something else to avoid that kind of treatment, you deserve better

As for the faimly part, they'll always love you no matter what. You're family, think about how your mom or sisters would feel if you were gone. They would miss you. Look at it this way, you may hate them now but deep inside you know that you just can't hate them because they're family and they're a close thing to you. Don't worry about it because here's a comment my high-school health teacher said:

"Karma's a bitch, it'll bite you back in the ass harder twice as hard"
~Kim A. ( Health Teacher)

Karma will get you're sisters back, it's just a way of life. Even if you don't believe it,, it can be something really small such as them getting pimples, losing they're wallet, or stuff like that. Don't worry, because since they're getting older, they'll probably move out soon. So you'll have the whole house to yourself.

"Despite the hatred I have for you, I can't deny that the hate I have for you, keeps us closer" - Ryan D.

[byee]

Yuck.

I think you and your mum need to find some quiet time to sit down and talk about all this. When you're not angry.

Things develop between family members, the way you all relate, the 'dynamic', which often becomes automatic. In your family, the dynamic is that she's the 'Angel' and you're the 'Devil'. Who knows how that got established (you might want to think on that and see what you come up with, maybe you were the 'bad' girl at one point?), but that's what needs to change, the automatic way you all relate to eachother, the dynamic.

Easiest way to do this is to talk calmly with your mum about it, and how much ot hurts, and how much you'd like it to change. Don't accuse her of anything, just talk observationally about what you see and experience, and how it makes you feel.

Very often, I think parents don't realize what's going on in the dynamic, and that ot needs to be reassessed. However, once brought to their attention CALMLY, many/most parents might respond favorably to the observations.

Give it a try.

[kerry]

Yuck.

I think you and your mum need to find some quiet time to sit down and talk about all this. When you're not angry.

Things develop between family members, the way you all relate, the 'dynamic', which often becomes automatic. In your family, the dynamic is that she's the 'Angel' and you're the 'Devil'. Who knows how that got established (you might want to think on that and see what you come up with, maybe you were the 'bad' girl at one point?), but that's what needs to change, the automatic way you all relate to eachother, the dynamic.

Easiest way to do this is to talk calmly with your mum about it, and how much ot hurts, and how much you'd like it to change. Don't accuse her of anything, just talk observationally about what you see and experience, and how it makes you feel.

Very often, I think parents don't realize what's going on in the dynamic, and that ot needs to be reassessed. However, once brought to their attention CALMLY, many/most parents might respond favorably to the observations.

Give it a try.

thanks for your help !

[shikachunin]

:mad::mad:
Well my sister who is 17 she can do and say what she likes to me and she geets away with it. When i do it back i get caught and i get the blame for actually everything. Im soooo close to doing something i shouldn't. Im being pushed away and i just get really upset... It doesn't matter what my sister does to me. Asusual i get the blame i feel like swearing at my mum.... My mum seems to think my sister is some sort of angel and im the devil. I hate the people around me they are pushing me away from my family. My mum is so horrible to me and i just want to cry.... No one really understands me except you lot on here.... I just want to punch or hit my mum as it is her fault the way my sister is like the way she is as my mum brought her up that way! Even my older sister can be horrible to me but ..... she is not as horrible as the younger sister! i hate my mum and sister at the moment i just want to hit them. My mum just see's me as the bad one out of my sisters. Also whatever i do it is wrong and it just makes me reallllly fucked off and they can't see why? It is soooo annoying being the youngest espically with two older sisters. My life feels like i have dissappointed myself! :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: i am moody and mad 24/7 and ANGRY what can i do not to do somehing i regret

Trust me, you're not the only one with unbelievably annoying siblings(I have a younger brother). However, I have some ways to blow of steam:
1. Play loud music through an MP3... but be careful not to blow your eardrums
2. Scream as loud as you can into a pillow! Nonody will hear you, and it almost always works for me!
3. Take a nap! My favorite thing to do is sleep, so it goes perfectly with my personality.

[kerry]

Trust me, you're not the only one with unbelievably annoying siblings(I have a younger brother). However, I have some ways to blow of steam:
1. Play loud music through an MP3... but be careful not to blow your eardrums
2. Scream as loud as you can into a pillow! Nonody will hear you, and it almost always works for me!
3. Take a nap! My favorite thing to do is sleep, so it goes perfectly with my personality.

ok thanks i think the 2nd one is best for me !