help with the same girl

[dmeek7]

ok so remember the girl in "she said no but she said yes"....well she kinda got ungrounded but she got asked by this kid 2 years younger than me and a year younger than her......she said yes......we talk on the phone till like 3:30 almost every night.....she talks about if she breaks up with this boy...then she would go out with me......but she keeps saying that they will never break up........i dont want her to get hurt but i want to break them up....and if i do that then shell hate me....im so jealous and i just want to break them up......so i guess my question is...."should i wait and get extremly jealous....or should i break them up...but have her hate me..."..........i need help plz.....thanx ppl

[Oblivion]

ok so remember the girl in "she said no but she said yes"....well she kinda got ungrounded but she got asked by this kid 2 years younger than me and a year younger than her......she said yes......we talk on the phone till like 3:30 almost every night.....she talks about if she breaks up with this boy...then she would go out with me......but she keeps saying that they will never break up........i dont want her to get hurt but i want to break them up....and if i do that then shell hate me....im so jealous and i just want to break them up......so i guess my question is...."should i wait and get extremly jealous....or should i break them up...but have her hate me..."..........i need help plz.....thanx ppl

Well obviously if you break them up and she hates you, there will be no point in what you just did because she wouldn't go out with you if she hated you. I would wait it out because them almost definitely wont be together for ever.

I would advise NOT breaking them up, becaus elike i said, the only thing that would happen its that she would hate you. Hate does not equal relationship.

[liam]

Okay, no offence but breaking them up would be unbelievebly stupid. and anyway have you ever thought about how?? i had bad experiences with this sort of thing, the guy that tried to break me and my gf up lost 2 friends.

To me the only way to break someone up for cirtain is to put them in hospital, and you wouldnt be around to enjoy it anyway =/

[byee]

Maybe you don't want to 'break them up', that would be mean and you don;t sound mean. maybe you jsut want to go out with her, and he's the 'complication' right now.

Maybe you just need to tell your friend here how much you like her and that you want to go out with her. Letting her know what you feel and what you want , and letting her make the decision, is a much more gentlemanly way of doing it.

Regardless of what she says or does, though, rest assured that if you wait long enough, she'll be available.

[dmeek7]

thanx for all the advise....i tryed what IAMSAM said and she still likes him...but is considering being friends with benifits with him.......just to be with me......its still bad a bit but i can get her to be all mine.....cause after all....i love her more than life itself

[kerry]

Maybe you don't want to 'break them up', that would be mean and you don;t sound mean. maybe you jsut want to go out with her, and he's the 'complication' right now.

Maybe you just need to tell your friend here how much you like her and that you want to go out with her. Letting her know what you feel and what you want , and letting her make the decision, is a much more gentlemanly way of doing it.

Regardless of what she says or does, though, rest assured that if you wait long enough, she'll be available.

i agree you should talk to her !