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mobile
June 18th, 2008, 03:25 PM
Right so I have been going out with this girl for about 2 months now, and we both really like each other, I mean when we are togethor its usually really good, but the past couple of times I have been with her she seems more bothered with her friends than me. She will talk to them for ages but wont really pay much attention to me.
She also smokes weed quite a lot, she isnt a little druggy or anything shes really nice and awsome but because her parents smoke it thats how she is.

Also, my best friend has been hanging round with us and my girlfriends friends recently and he is really good looking and ages ago before I was with my girlfriend my best friend and her had a drunken kiss at a party. So i feel paranoid she will start to like him rather than me. She would Never cheat, shes not like that at all...but you cant help who you like can you. He will be with them a lot more than me so he will be spending more time with my girlfriend and her friends so I can only worry she may start to like him, hes really good looking...and im not...to be honest lol.

She does tell me alot she really likes me, its just I sometimes cant understand her. One day she seems like she really likes me but the next she seems a bit 'off'.
I think maybe because she knows I really really like her she takes a bit for granted than if I seemed a bit 'off' with her one day.

What do I do? Im confused

Kallvin
June 18th, 2008, 06:24 PM
Smoking weed? I would tell my parents...

NextToNormal
June 18th, 2008, 06:32 PM
i would just sit down and talk with her about how you feel. tell her whats bothering you. she wont know unless you say something.
and about her smoking weed...tell her parents. unless they smoke it too and are letting her do it (not too smart, but anyways) they should know because weed is just going to open her up to trying other stuff and lead her down the wrong road.

mobile
June 19th, 2008, 03:27 PM
Well I have just spoken to her on the phone, and she wants to be single, she says she still likes me but just doesnt want a relationship.

I really dont know what to do right now, I really really like her but its ended and thats that.
She still wants to be friends but I cant stand the thought of seeing her with other guys.

This is shit :(