i need advice for my frends

[wazzler7999]

ok my two best fredn chey and shawn have been going on and off for awhile and at first it was awkward but im kool with it but they broke up for good bout 4months ago, and well recently they said they still like each other but shawn goes out with this really cute girl named sam but shawn turned chey down and cheys been depressed and she has been going out with these asshole kids to make up for shawn and oone of them made her give him a bj and she had sex with one<shes only 12> and now she says that he raped her i know this is serious idk what to do?? and if i let shawn find out shawn would probbaly kill the kid he has anger issues? and what sucks is im stuck in the middle of this??

[Rutherford The Brave]

Well, your stuck in a sticky situation. If she was raped you should tell someone, like a parent or a teacher. Not shawn that will only make the problem worse.

[byee]

Your friend Chey doesn't sound like she's ready to handle the emotional roller coaster of relationships just yet. She needs a bit more maturity to learn how to handle loss without going off the deep end and doing really impulsive things(like going out with 'bad' guys) which aren't very good for her. I'd point this out, and ask her how you can help her avoid making these awful decisions, that you're worried about her.

I don't think Shawn needs to be involved here, this is really not his issue. His response will mostly likely complicate things. Rather, I think you need to try to address Chey's behavior in response to the end of the relationship. Likewise, if you can determine that she was forceably assaulted, then you and she should come up with a plan to tell some adults and have that addressed. But, I do believe the adults should deal with that, not Shawn.