My best friend

[scatman]

Ok youve probably heard this before but i need help, my best friend likes me and she is my BEST FRIEND no joke and she wants to go out with me or date whatever theyre the same thing. But i told her it might ruin our friend ship and she said dont use that lame excuse on me.....But what if its true THEN WHAT DO I DO? we are such good friends if we said we were dating people would believe us based on just how we act together i dont know what to do....and i really like her too

And she has done things that i wouldent wanna admit dating someone who has done this, and i dont want my friends to make fun of me for it but i dont care about them and i would just like to give her a second chance but its hard to do that...



And sorry about the giant run on scentances im horrible with punctuation and id probably put it in wrong and you wouldent be able to read this at all thanks everyone

[Rutherford The Brave]

The way I see it you have 2 options. You can either go out with her or not. See you can go out with her, thats what she wants; or you can not go out with her. If you do go out with her, be smart don't ruin your friendship and if it feels uncomfortable just tell her that you just want to be friends.

[byee]

Part of being a 'Best friend' is that you respect eachother, even when you disagree. This might be one of those times.

Neither of your needs is more important than the other, and although it's flattering that she wants to 'date' you, her dismissing your concerns is really selfish. Uh, oh.

You're entitled to turn down a request like this for whatever reason you want. If you feel it's not worth the risk, if you value the friendship and enjoy what you have enough as is, then you should not give in here. She needs to respect your decision, even if she disagrees.

Maybe she doesn't really know the depth of your appreciation for her and the relationship as it is now, maybe you should tell her this. Often, people want 'more' b/c they're unsure of what they've got. And, as an FYI, maybe find out from her what she thinks the difference would be.

[scatman]

ok ive kinda been avoiding her recently but im gonna talk to her about this soon and illl messege back with what she think is you all want me to thanks soooo much

[Nihilus]

good luck