pain

[ArtistInNeed]

okay so most of the time when me and my bf have sex theres this lil thing inside near the front of my vagina and when it is moved ( with a penis or finger) it hurts alot, idk wat it is or wats wrong but it never did it before, its been happening for a few months now and i would really like to kno if anyone else experiences this or if theyve heard of it.

[Sugaree]

Could it be your hymen? That might be the cause of the pain.

[ArtistInNeed]

no i dont think so, ive had sex before and the hymen is long gone XD

[Sugaree]

It could be a bit of loose skin. That's what I would say. I'm not so sure though.

[ArtistInNeed]

idk, its on two sides...i so confused, y must vaginas be such mazes!

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

The hymen is a thick ring of tissue around the opening of the vagina. Yes, it loosens a bit after you have intercourse for the first time (in women with tighter hymens, bits of the tissue can tear, which is why it is said to "break", and is associated with pain and/or bleeding). It never goes away though, that tissue is always there. It's more noticeable in some women than others, on some it's visible, in others it's not, and you may or may not be able to feel it with your fingers if you tried to find it. In any case, the hymen is composed of pretty sensitive tissue, and it's possible that this is where the pain is coming from. Not necessarily from being stretched, as happens during your first time, but perhaps just from being bumped into a lot during sex. You say it's been happening for a few months, and I don't know how long you'd been having sex before this started. If wasn't always like this though, could you have bruised the area somehow, and having sex is making it slower to heal? I wouldn't worry about it, but keep an eye on it for any sort of swelling or further discomfort, just in case you have injured yourself somehow. If it's not something you feel you can just deal with, or it doesn't go away/gets worse, you could see a gynecologist to be sure everything is in order. In the meantime, all I can think to do is take some ibuprofen or acetaminophen before having sex, and maybe use some lube to reduce friction in the area.

[ArtistInNeed]

thank you, yea thats wat we do if its too much pain, we use lube. but i can feel it with my fingers and move the skin back and forth

[notsure101]

Iy could be friction that caused it then u touch it and it hurts

[sillygirl450]

i could be your hymen for sure

[DarkWingedAngel]

it might be that little clit thing at the top of ur vagina that little clit thing hurts me sometimes to when i do that stuff