Left out

[Joe3140]

Just now I found out my best group of 5 or so friends are doing things without me and excluding me. We've done things, hungout, slept over, everyday for like a good week now, and now all the sudden theyre leaving me out. And its pretty purposefully it seems. Im going crazy over this. Now what do I do? I know some people are going to say "Then maybe theyre not your real friends" but honeslty that doesnt help much, theyre the best friends ive got.

[foof1]

you should talk to them and if they just shrug it off they are not your friends and it will be unhealthy to hang with them. REMEMBER: IF YOUR "FREINDS" MAKE YOU FEEL BAD, THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.

[Joe3140]

Yeah thanks, but what am I supposed to do? Just give up on the best friends I have? Going through life with no friends at all certainly doesn't sound too fun. And making new friends isn't something that happens over night at all.

[Oblivion]

You just said that you've only been hanging out for about a week. Thats pretty over night when it comes to friendships. When people are making new friends they kind of drift around a lot until they find the right group of people. A week can't really determine life long best friends.

[byee]

Don't get too far ahead of the story here. First, find out what happened, tell them it seems they've left you, and let them respond. Things move pretty quickly, maybe you just aren't running fast enough to catch their bus, if you know what I mean, and maybe by pointing out their behavior to them (or, perhaps more accurately, your perception of it), they might recognize it and make the extra effort to 'slow down' and include you. You're assuming they're intentionally rejecting you, maybe that's so, but then again, maybe not. You need to find out and see what happens. Do this before you jump to conclusions.

[kerry]

i would talk to them and ask them why are they are being that way !
:)

[Nihilus]

Go talk to them and ask why they are acting the way they are acting towards you. If They make you feel bad then they are not your friends.Good luck;)

[kerry]

you should talk to them and if they just shrug it off they are not your friends and it will be unhealthy to hang with them. REMEMBER: IF YOUR "FREINDS" MAKE YOU FEEL BAD, THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.

Agreed.if they dont treat you with respect or leave you out they aren't friends

[Rutherford The Brave]

Yeah friends are forever if they treat you like crap well then they aren't forever.

[mattman942]

maybe there is a rummor going around about you that has happend to me before you just have a great sense and keep your head and it should work out

[Oblivion]

Please don't bump old threads. This is from June.
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