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2Spicy
October 7th, 2005, 08:29 PM
Hey guys,
Ok theres this girl i like.. i mean she has the best personality, is incredibly sweet, pretty, funny, and everything else a guy could ask for.. shes given me a letter saying basically " i have to confess something.. i really like you.. think you're cute.. etc etc... there were some jokes in there . like everyone thinks of me as a REAL nice guy... so nice that she jokes around and calls me her sister. well in the letter she said basically "so will you be my sister? think about it and answer (then a heart)."

after reading this i thought basically "she likes me , and is she asking me out?" i was happy obviously :D.. but then i heard things from friends that she didnt mean it 100% seriously... but after the letter she acted much more closely to me than ever before...

honestly i dont know whats going on.. i dont know what she thinks.. .i dont know how she feels about me truly..

i dont know what to do. and to add to the problem, shes 2 years older than me (though in the same grade). im 17 shes 19 (both seniors).

Any help would be much appreciated :D!

2Spicy
October 7th, 2005, 09:35 PM
Hey guys,
Ok theres this girl i like.. i mean she has the best personality, is incredibly sweet, pretty, funny, and everything else a guy could ask for.. shes given me a letter saying basically " i have to confess something.. i really like you.. think you're cute.. etc etc... there were some jokes in there . like everyone thinks of me as a REAL nice guy... so nice that she jokes around and calls me her sister. well in the letter she said basically "so will you be my sister? think about it and answer (then a heart)."

after reading this i thought basically "she likes me , and is she asking me out?" i was happy obviously :D.. but then i heard things from friends that she didnt mean it 100% seriously... but after the letter she acted much more closely to me than ever before...

honestly i dont know whats going on.. i dont know what she thinks.. .i dont know how she feels about me truly..

i dont know what to do. and to add to the problem, shes 2 years older than me (though in the same grade). im 17 shes 19 (both seniors).

Any help would be much appreciated :D... advice + also would like to know in general "how to ask a girl out"..

EDIT: oh woops. i didnt know how to edit. i wasnt logged in so i clicked on quote thinking that was edit... woops..

nullandvoid123
October 8th, 2005, 10:09 AM
the only thing i can think of is asking her how she feels. i know how hard that can be... but you just gotta do it.

damok
October 8th, 2005, 10:22 PM
When I asked my current girlfriend out, I found it really hard because of the fact I have known her for 12 years and we have always been really close friends and it just wouldnt feel right if we had a closer relationship. But I asked her out and we are now very happy.

TreKool
October 9th, 2005, 09:38 AM
She has to mean it somehow. She may not like you 100pc YET but......she wants you!

She is not asking you out, just giving you 'Vibes'. You will basically need to talk to her and get to know her and when the time is right.....ask the question.

I wish that was me..................................... :evil: :evil: :evil:



Good Luck!! :wink:

Anonymous
October 9th, 2005, 12:15 PM
if shes really as sweet and nice as u say she is, she wouldn't be lieing in da letter ands she really giveing u sum very clear hints just tell her how u feel

Oath
October 9th, 2005, 02:45 PM
If you do ask her out im pretty sure she'll say yes because she cares about you so much. I think she is kinda asking you out when she said will you be my sister or whatever.

Just show her the letter and ask her what she means by that and she'll probley tell you.
GOOD LUCK

Hi i am jon
October 10th, 2005, 11:25 PM
what are you expecting some one to say no dont do it?, OF COURSE TELL HER, then once you see her reaction ask her out if she is really everything you say so but doesnt like you 100% she will just say sorry there is some one else or some excuse and go on living life, like my third time sayin this to VT today nothin to lose go for it ~thumbs up~

icegemz
October 11th, 2005, 03:35 AM
TELL HER!!!! Ignore wat her friends tell u. They dnt no nuthin. Go up 2 her take 2 1 side and ask her about the letter. Even show her the letter. If she tells u itz a joke acted hurt and tell her that hav feelins for her. If she says she serious then theres only 1 thing 2 do................ snog her lol

kutethang101
July 19th, 2007, 03:57 PM
Ok im a girl,
Become good freinds.
Take part in her interests.
Then when the time is right ask her out.
Trust me im a girl thats the right way 2 do it

Octo22
July 19th, 2007, 07:20 PM
Ok im a girl,
Become good freinds.
Take part in her interests.
Then when the time is right ask her out.
Trust me im a girl thats the right way 2 do it

He's already done all that, so we'd trust you more if you actually read everything he said >:U