unwanted grinding erection (girl advice wanted)

[Texmex21]

At my graduation party 2 nights ago i was grinding on this girl and got erections through out the dance. when she put her hand down she felt my boner. how do i prevent these. to her i dont want to be some sort of sex crazed maniac. i didnt mean for them to happen

[Sugaree]

Chillax man! This are just spontaneous erections and they are normal!

Don't tell her that you're some sex crazed maniac. She's old enough to understand that's it's fine. You really can't prevent them. You can try and think about something else when you think you're getting one.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I know this seems to be a problem for tons of guys in a dance like that; I know how you feel, and honestly I have no idea how to stop getting them (I have the same problem). I HOPE that girls in this day and age can realize how hard it is for us to keep it under control; I mean when you dance like that (grinding, etc.) what do you really expect from us? It's not like we can totally keep our cool and everything, its REALLY difficult at our age and with puberty and hormones and whatnot. Maybe in your case that's what she was TRYING to do to you (who knows right?) and that could be why she reached down with her hand like you said.

What do you girls think about the whole thing (I'm guessing the OP wants girls opinions too)? Do you get freaked out by it or not. Honestly we AREN'T crazed sex maniacs (well most of us aren't :D) its just that whenever a GUY gets aroused its really hard to hide if you know what I mean :yeah:

[Texmex21]

thanks canadian guy.

[byee]

LOL!! This gets my "Best post of the Nite" award!

OF COURSE YOU GET A BONER GRINDING, silly! Think about what you're doing and who you're doing it with! And, unless she's been living on VENUS for the last 10 years of her life with NO GUYS, then she is perfectly aware of your erection, too! It's a big part of why people grind in the first place, it's so sexual!!!

Don't worry, she doesn't thnk you're sex crazed, just normal, although I'm not so sure it was so appropriate for her to touch you there (and yes, i think it wasn't an 'accidental' touch, either).

[Texmex21]

On my previous thread, i talked about getting erections during"grinding".
Girls do you mind erections not just during grinding but all dances. Most of us guys cant stop them.

[byee]

OMG, it continues!

Listen, I'm a guy, but any girl who minds erections in their guys while grinding shouldn't be grinding. Really, it's part of why they do it, it's very sexual, it's a way of being sexual without really being sexual.

LOL!

[heartagram72]

lol i got the same problem.
except i was wearing dress pants so it was REALLY easy to see.
i just said i needed to go find my friend.
too bad that was the only time i would see her and i didnt get her name cuz she was sOOOOOO hot.
also works are thinking of something else, or tucking you cock up in your waistband.
cyclist shorts also help to hide it, like wearing them under whatever else your wearing.
and if you are athletic, where a cup. all of those make it hard to notice, or go away.

[Neverender]

when you get a boner, think of renee zellweger the way she is on family guy
when she looks like an anteater and starts eating ants. works for me evey time

[teenagerughhpuberty]

grinding is a sexual dance in a way so what can ya do just as many said take ya mind off the subject the girl (knowing the girls i hang with) may like it. but thats the ghetto girls

[AMERICANelite123]

thats normal lol that happened to my bf at a skool dance
i was grinding him and ya
but totally normal cant stop it
ur body just thinks its hot probly
lol
but u could try to not grind lol or not get as close as u r
but how old r u?
cuz usually as u get older it happens less often
but usually a girl dont mind it it means we accomplished something lmao!
so ya kinda turned me on wen i found out he had a boner
so most grlz wouldnt mind lol

[AMERICANelite123]

On my previous thread, i talked about getting erections during"grinding".
Girls do you mind erections not just during grinding but all dances. Most of us guys cant stop them.

haha i dont mind and most grlz dont if they r grinding thats sorda y we do it

[Texmex21]

haha i dont mind and most grlz dont if they r grinding thats sorda y we do it

so some of you girls dont really mind it?

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Of course that's why they do it! Us guys have an unfair advantage, since all the time we can always "check out" a girl's breasts, etc. On the other hand, this is one of the only ways for girls to get a chance to check out a guy's "package" and.... stuff :D

[Zan0ra]

Is grinding a type of dance.? Sorry new to that word.

[Texmex21]

yeqh grinding is a sexual dance where 2 people rub on each other and such. Its very nice:)

[Zan0ra]

Alright. Ya, almost impossible not to get an erection.

[gotquestions44]

guys get boners just like looking at me so im used to it like i mean when guys dance with me and i feel their boner it kinda turns me on

[Texmex21]

guys get boners just like looking at me so im used to it like i mean when guys dance with me and i feel their boner it kinda turns me on

Thats the kind of girl i would like to dance with u know. They dont care about the hardons and they actually enjoy them

[Callwaiting]

lol i got the same problem.
except i was wearing dress pants so it was REALLY easy to see.
i just said i needed to go find my friend.
too bad that was the only time i would see her and i didnt get her name cuz she was sOOOOOO hot.
also works are thinking of something else, or tucking you cock up in your waistband.
cyclist shorts also help to hide it, like wearing them under whatever else your wearing.
and if you are athletic, where a cup. all of those make it hard to notice, or go away.

lol can you imagine how much that would hurt getting a boner while wearing a cup!
The waistband trick is ok, but once you're like 14+ it gets heaps easier to tell when someone's doing it...

[DarkWingedAngel]

dude we don't care if u get a bonner
and we deffantly don't care if u get it when u r grinding us
it realy does not matter to us so don't stress about it

[John55]

What did the girl say when she felt it LOL? Its normal though, happened to me lots of times, they usually just keep rubing it, its a turn on for them LOL!!!

[Rutherford The Brave]

What did the girl say when she felt it LOL? Its normal though, happened to me lots of times, they usually just keep rubing it, its a turn on for them LOL!!!

Not exactly.... Although that statement is partially correct, I'm afraid not all girls are totally into a guy the second they start dancing with them. Plus you must remember that guys go to dances, dance with a girl, and never get anywhere with her.

[tom223]

grinding is a sexual dance in a way so what can ya do just as many said take ya mind off the subject the girl (knowing the girls i hang with) may like it. but thats the ghetto girls

obvious troll is obvious.

[BlackenedSilver]

If that happened when Im dancing with a guy I would be so flattered!
Not disgusted and thinking that this guy must be sex crazed!

[henry827]

i have had the same expierience idont think girls mind

this is going to sound weird but to make erections go away i do math in my head like 50/12=4.something it seems to help better than anything else

[Boeing]

i have had the same expierience idont think girls mind

this is going to sound weird but to make erections go away i do math in my head like 50/12=4.something it seems to help better than anything else

Same!! :yeah:

[grinder]

[QUOTE=Texmex21;304106]At my graduation party 2 nights ago i was grinding on this girl and got erections through out the dance. when she put her hand down she felt my boner. how do i prevent these. to her i dont want to be some sort of sex crazed maniac. i didnt mean for them to happen[/QUOTboners are hawt not a problem and I'm not sleezy so no worries

[MykeSoBe]

I know this is a bump and all but I'm gonna take a chance here to say that if a girl doesn't get a guy hard then that's what's offensive! :lol:

[Alice]

Yeah, we know you guys get hard when you grind on us while dancing or even hugging. We know it's normal. I am usually flattered by that!

[LuckyLuke]

If you're NOT getting an erection, there's likely a problem.

You're basically humping her ass/vag when you're grinding, what the hell do you expect to happen?

[LuckyLuke]

i have had the same expierience idont think girls mind

this is going to sound weird but to make erections go away i do math in my head like 50/12=4.something it seems to help better than anything else

Am I really going to be the first to ask this...... fine. How does 50/12 = 4?

[Pancakes]

Ha same thing happened to me. At my school dance she started grinding on me and I know she could feel my boner because she smiled at me. But otherwise I think as long as she knows your not a "sex crazed maniac" lol, :P

[Laurenzo]

Heh, it's perfectly normal, don't worry :) She won't think you're a sex-crazed maniac :P

Unless you are :eek: lol

[briannafrmhell]

Ha if the guy I'm dancing with gets hard I'm doing it right lol. Doesnt bother me at all.

[sophierocks]

I like when a guy im dancing with gets a boner, most girls would, and besides, theres obviously something going on between two people if they are grinding, like im not gunna let a guy i dont like grind.

[Hope4u]

we know it's gonna happen...but if you keep grinding on her with it then she might get the wrong idea..and think you're a perv.

[solosarah]

Um just be subtle, and if you get the "what the fuk" eye, you should move on or adjust your flagpole.

[Carly99]

I'm sure she was happy that she got u hard.

[Unown]

chillax i get boners almost randomly at times.

[Haleygurl]

well, I thought that when guys grind us they are suposed to be like that..but as long as you don't touch her with your hands all over n stuff in front of everyone.I hate that..but grinding with an erect penis is very normal and expected

[Ambrosia]

Not only is this OP banned but this thread is from 2008 and was bumped back in June. :locked: