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iJack
June 14th, 2008, 07:47 AM
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kerry
June 14th, 2008, 08:09 AM
:cool:I think that is a good video to show you how bullying really happens !!!!!!
if people saw that in real life they will maybe try to stop it
DaretoFallup
June 14th, 2008, 09:42 PM
I can totaly relate, I recently transfered schools, because I was a victim of bullying...
Sugaree
June 14th, 2008, 09:45 PM
The thing about bullies is that the ones that push other kids around are outcasts...they don't know how to relate to others.
japanman
June 14th, 2008, 09:52 PM
I agree with this video altho bullys are outcast so for me bullys come naurally they all me shprt and puch me and beat me up but you know wat i do i just laugh i dont fight i just take each puch in the face and laugh. I laugh because its just funny how they think getting anger out is better by hurting ppl. So ya
Hyper
June 14th, 2008, 10:01 PM
Hmm I don't know where you get it from. But bullys arent outcasts they have their own society :/
japanman
June 14th, 2008, 10:05 PM
Lol ture but all the bullys that bully me don really belong none of them like eachother and none of them have friemds but still thers one bulyy that has friends etc so i cant really disagree with you :)
Sugaree
June 15th, 2008, 05:51 PM
Well, they may have become bullies for the reason that they may have a bad home life and could be influenced to thinking that hurting people is ok. I still think that once they come to realization of what they've done to other kids that they feel like and outcast.
Malcolm Tucker
June 16th, 2008, 04:17 AM
No they won't. As someone who's been bullied his entire life, bullies who physically abuse others don't ever feel outcasted. Never. Because they get "respect" by others who do the same. I think it's despicable.
george
June 16th, 2008, 12:18 PM
hmmmm luckily there aren't really bullys at my school but I'm not so sure what will happen when I got to my high school O.O But my brother says "no one really bullys you, they just talk shit about you behind your back" lol so eh idk. But honestly I wouldn't be bullied cause I don't like to take shit from people. I'd just hit them back :\ idk thats just me. :)
sorry for the language :D
the videos good though cause it just show that bullying is happening even from adults.
Medical Kid
June 17th, 2008, 07:04 PM
ah.........I too used to be a victim....its just kids who project there own insecurities on others, there not even worth the trouble....:rolleyes:
Bryan B
June 17th, 2008, 07:47 PM
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ctw4451
June 19th, 2008, 01:33 AM
It's pathetic to see happen, and it's another thing added onto the "To-Do List" of the world. =|
liam
June 21st, 2008, 04:09 PM
good vid. really get the point across
lism
June 22nd, 2008, 08:34 AM
good vid. really get the point across
:yes::yes::yes: sure does =] haha
Malcolm Tucker
June 22nd, 2008, 08:41 AM
That video is amazing. I have nearly been through that same scenario. I hated my life. And now it's only starting to pick up. I think that people should go to jail for life for telling someone to commit suicide.
lism
June 22nd, 2008, 08:48 AM
yes they should, its a horrible thing to do. its absolutly disgusting! Some bullies only bully to impress people... thats just sad.
Mirataku
June 22nd, 2008, 11:31 AM
bullying is a failure of the superego, bad parenting or childhood experiences usually the cause
Junky
July 11th, 2008, 11:38 PM
I've been a bully, not slashing people in the face more verbal, it makes me feel sick about myself. I see their is a WHOLE forum to the shit i could've (probably did) cause. The sad part is that I probably don't even remember doing some of that stuff, but they will remember me as an asshole for the rest of their lives, and no matter how many times I apologize it will still haunt them.:( I've stopped bullying and will try to never again be such a roadblock to success
Sporadica
July 14th, 2008, 12:09 AM
I ask this of all of you. How can a person stand up to like a beating from like 6 ppl? back before the 70's or so 2 kids who had a disagreement would just go out behind the school, have a fist fight, be done, shake hands and be friends. but now kids r too lazy/scared so they get knives, guns, and other ppl to help them
and how about this, if you bully 2 or 3 times then ur outta the school. (we gotta stop giving assholes more chances to change, why? because they won't, so if they do somethings stupid like treating another human as if they are lower than them, then they are gone)
what do you guys think about that?
iceyfresh
July 15th, 2008, 08:21 PM
good vid.
Noddy
September 11th, 2008, 04:38 AM
good vid.
Get professional help. If you are not mature enough to take this very adult step then read books on behaviourism, psychology and human relationships.
They don't teach people in school appropriate ways of interacting with your peers. However there is a wealth of material out there if you can be bothered to look. It is important for your development as a human being to understand yourself. Most people need to learn to love or accept themselves before they can appropriately interact with others. It really is as simple as that, but its not easy to accept as truth. Care for yourself, make your life easier not harder.
That's how to deal with bullies.
Callwaiting
September 11th, 2008, 07:10 AM
I'm sick of everyone saying that bullies are outcast, alone ect.
In real life they aren't. They're more popular than you, smarter, stronger and appear better in every way.
These days there isn't the "school bully" who beats you up for your lunch money, it's just constant harassment which is seen as a bit of fun by everyone except you.
Imagine you are called a name, just a silly name. Every day you are called this name and laughed at about it.
Then one day you scream at them to stop. What happens? You look like an idiot for letting something "so small" bother you.
This is what pisses me off about bullying, you can't tell them to stop because it's just a minor thing, every day, that builds up to something horrible.
I don't take shit outside of school, because I can put a stop to it then and there, but school is very different. Fighting someone won't make bullying stop, if anything it'll make it worse. So will talking to parents/teachers. So will asking the bully directly to stop.
So it's a lose/lose situation.
iceyfresh
October 17th, 2008, 12:48 AM
i agree with this movie although i am ashamed of my self i used to be a bully but now im diferent have of my old friends found out im bi and think im weird and i realized i shouldent pick on people i hate my self now for thinking about it again and some of my old friends think im crazy because i cut myself in depression.
JoshDude
October 17th, 2008, 01:31 AM
Video speaks the truth..
Random_oso06
October 17th, 2008, 02:22 AM
that i think is that the stereotype about bullys that there only good at sports and there stupid is just retarded there are some but not all bullys are dumb if there so dumb tan how do they get away from getting in trouble anyone can be a bully there two types physically and mentally a nerd can pick on you with words and you can get bullied because the one thing about them is that there aren't really strong is that your intimidated by the crowed of people with him and your alone
Triceratops
October 17th, 2008, 02:06 PM
Bullies are pathetic low-lifes and are really insecure themselves.
There's nothing "big" or "clever" about them at all.
The only thing that they're capable of is trashing someone elses life to make them feel slightly better, what morons :|
Avalikia
October 17th, 2008, 02:44 PM
Actually, recent studies I've heard about show that bullies aren't generally insecure or have low self-esteem. The problem is the exact opposite: they're usually too confident and think way too much of themselves, and part of the reason they bully others is because they're angry that other kids don't think they're as awesome as they think they are. They feel like if they bully others then they'll start getting the respect they think they deserve.
I was bullied off and on (mostly on) from the start of third grade to the end of high school. It only got physical during elementary school; it was emotional most of the time. I wish it was all physical - I'd have healed by now. But I keep telling myself that if they only knew how badly it hurt they would have stopped, because that's probably true. They'd have to be very, very bad people to want to hurt anyone that bad on purpose, and I just don't see how they could have been.
just-me
October 18th, 2008, 04:51 PM
i have been a victim. they torture your days and are in your thoughts constantly on your thoughts eating into your brain. its just so horrible. good video. shows truth. but it only really shows physical bullying. i got physically and emotionally bullied, and i remember those words, those threats more than i remember the physical pain.
rainebg
November 1st, 2008, 05:23 PM
All of the bully's in my school have friends-a lot of them. They gang up on the bullyees (if thats a word) and make their life hell. there is no physical bullying in my school and in my opinion and some personal exeperiance that is worse. Also, after seeing this video i'm going to stand up for this one kid in particular that everyone in the locker room makes fun of. I feel bad but i say nothing this has inspired me to do something. This is a great video!!! Bullying is a big issue. Also some bullies got bullied and to deal with that they bully. I was like that when i entered middle school. I got involved with the wrong friends. Every time i would say something i felt bad but they were my friends so i went along. In seventh grade i got better friends and now and even then i felt like an asshole and it makes me feel awful when i think about what i have done. Also please don't insult me because i used to bully truse me i feel awful and i tried to make up for what i have done. I am truly remorseful but the truth is i can never take back what i said as much as i wish i could take it back. It makes me sick what i have done. I'm sorry to all who were and are being bullied. Reach out to someone ask for help stand up for yourself. Remember your parents are ALWAYS there for you. Get help.
iceyfresh
January 21st, 2009, 01:43 AM
that i think is that the stereotype about bullys that there only good at sports and there stupid is just retarded there are some but not all bullys are dumb if there so dumb tan how do they get away from getting in trouble anyone can be a bully there two types physically and mentally a nerd can pick on you with words and you can get bullied because the one thing about them is that there aren't really strong is that your intimidated by the crowed of people with him and your alone
not to be rude but i was a bully and i dont do sports
The Batman
January 21st, 2009, 03:13 AM
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