Confused

[daking]

Ive been confused about my sexuality for a long time...

Ive always known ive liked girls since I was little and still do. But I am not super sexually attracted to them. I guess you could say im picky but most girls that turn me on are like foreign girls or fashion models. I know thats kinda weird and slightly unrealistic but I just find them so sexually attractive. There are only some american girls that I find sexually attractive. But anyways, I never was emotionally attracted to guys and I still am not. I dont ever see myself dating a guy because i dont get crushes on them, I only get crushes on girls. But since I started getting erections I find them slightly more sexually attractive than girls. To top it all of I have a foot "fetish" (i guess you could call it that) for guys only. Which makes it even harder to understand what my sexual orientation is. But people say fetishes are things that only arouse you, which isnt true for me because I still get aroused by girls and guys.

So yeah i know its really confusing, it confuses me too. I dont really think im gay cuz im not emotionally attracted to guys but idk. Please help me out here!

[iJack]

Its just hormones, id ride it out and dont make any drastic movements, until you are really sure.

[byee]

First, at 14 who knows what any of this means, it's still too new and too powerful to make logical sense of it. Liking exotic women makes you sophisticated, nothing else. You have good taste. I'd bet this is true for other things as well.

Second, a 'fetish' is something you always need to become aroused and perform. That's different than liking something. You don't sound like you have a fetish, then. This is good.

Being gay is so much more than what arouses you, it takes time to figure these things out. As I've said elsewhere, it's best to just sit with things for a while and give them time, without necessarily jumping to conclusions. Being aroused by or attracted to something/someone at 14 doesn't really indicate anything other than the fact that you're a hormone crazed pubescent guy. Most guys who are gay typically have a sense of these things, they just 'know'. If you're doubting it, it would suggest that whatever you're feeling inside is just a by product of puberty. Don't fret about it too much.

better?

[daking]

First, at 14 who knows what any of this means, it's still too new and too powerful to make logical sense of it. Liking exotic women makes you sophisticated, nothing else. You have good taste. iId bet this is true for other things as well.

Second, a 'fetish' is something you always need to become aroused and perform. That' different than liking something. You don't sound like you have a fetish, then. This is good.

Being gay is so much more than what arouses you, it takes time to figure these things out. As I've said elsewhere, it's best to just sit with things for a while and give them time, without necessarily jumping to conclusions. Being aroused by or attracted to something/someone at 14 doesn't really indicate anything other than the fact that you're a hormone crazed pubescent guy. Most guys who are gay typically have a sense of these things, they just 'know'. if you're doubting it, it would suggest that whatever you're feeling insise is just a by product of puberty. Don't fret about it too much.

better?

Okay, so if I get aroused by feet but I still get aroused by people and regular sexual activities its technically not a fetish, more like an attraction? That makes me feel better. Thanks for your help :)

[byee]

Yes, you've got it right, now. As long as you can still get it all to work with people, your attraction to feet isnlt a 'fetish', and isn't anything to worry about.

[sabotaged111]

hmmm.... my advice, hormones of some sort :p just go with the flow