Sex..Are you waiting until marriage?

[teencrazykid]

I know this sort of relates to the other topic entitled "Sex," but I just want to know the opinion of others here. So, are you waiting until marriage. I am thinking about waiting until I am married, but at the same time, I am only 13, so I am defenitely not ready anyhow...but like I said, what are your plans?

[teencrazykid]

I thought this was going into the puberty forum, but this is an issue that is good to debate....to get everyone elses opinion, and maybe in the process to form your own.

[Hi i am jon]

im 13 and hell no am i waiting till marrige..i see no point in that!, if you love some one you want them to be happy in every way, so you make them feel good throgh intercourse, thats how it got the expression making love....haha i plan on showing a girl how much i love her sophomore year :-p...any way you get to live once so why only make one person in the world sexually satisfied when you can make more sexually satisfied....

[teencrazykid]

Either way, b4 or during marriage, is ok. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, I just want to know the views of others my age thanks!!!1

[Hi i am jon]

glad i can help

[Dr. Nick Riviera]

I think you should not wait until marriage because a marriage doesn't make sure, that you partner is the right one. I think iT's better to make some experience before the marriage, so you can explore what you like or dislike.

[kolte]

Ugh, Its only religious creetons that didnt score in high school that don't want anyone else to. lol

I'm tired of people saying sex is a beutiful thing. that comes from the people who have never had sex i guess. But when your pants are half down and your trying to find a good position and her foot keeps smacking you in the side of the head...ugh....how godly.

[redcar]

well i dont wanna get married so i wont wait for mariage

[Whisper]

No i'm not going to wait untill marrige. Sex is an extremly important part of a relationship, I want to be able to explore everything with my partner befor we decide to get married.

Marrige is on of the biggest decesions of your life
With all the divorces that are happening now
I't extremly important that you know and are comftorble with every aspect of your relationship

The sexual aspects of a relationship is an important part of that so as far as i'm concerned its irisponsible to wait till your married....


I'm going to wait till I find a girl I love

[nwshc]

No.

[teencrazykid]

I keep looking at this and I still haven't formed my opinion. This is a debate issue, more are welcome to actually fucking DEBATE it!!!!!!!

[redcar]

god calm down will ya

[teencrazykid]

Ugh, Its only religious creetons that didnt score in high school that don't want anyone else to. lol

I'm tired of people saying sex is a beutiful thing. that comes from the people who have never had sex i guess. But when your pants are half down and your trying to find a good position and her foot keeps smacking you in the side of the head...ugh....how godly.

Actually, 13/14 yr olds (most of which aren't in high school yet) have decided that sex is a beautiful thing and that they aren't going to have sex until they are married. It's not just religious "creetons", and sex isn't "scoring" either. I have some merely rude things to say to those who believe that sex is like a basketball game, the more points you score the better

[kolte]

sex is not special, its sex. its a normal, instinctive thing, your not tought to have sex. Like shitting for example, its not special, its instinctive, you don't think shitting is a beautiful thing to ya lol

[teencrazykid]

Sex isn't like shitting. If it wasn't percieved as casual, then people wouldn't act like it is.

[kolte]

whatever

[nwshc]

My shits are a beautiful thing.

[kolte]

lol

[teencrazykid]

Ok, back to topic. Sex shouldn't be treated as casual, b/c that is just wrong. Many children are born to parents who don't care for one another more than just to fuck. That is pathetic. Sex shouldn't be treated as casual, that should only be reserved for relationships, or at least people should be able to hold the responsibilty of a child if one is conceived during sex, casual or relationship. But so many people having casual sex cannot handle the responsibility of a child, but many are still children themselves, ie: teenagers.

[RunAwayMolly]

I used to want to wait till marraige... sex is a very special thing when its shared between two people who care about eachother more then anything or anyone else... so now im just waiting for the right moment with the right person... :)

[Elokyn]

like molly said its for two people who love and care for each other and want to share that special moment with one another. I don't think you should have to say "I do" to share that moment with the one you love.

[RunAwayMolly]

like molly said its for two people who love and care for each other and want to share that special moment with one another. I don't think you should have to say "I do" to share that moment with the one you love.

exactly! tho the one i love now i wouldnt mind saying "i do" to... :P

[Elokyn]

yeah, I know exactly how you feel..I don't have a problem at all being intimate with my boyfriend cus I know we'll be together forever and we're both okay with it.

[ACantstantEar]

I agree with I Live. As long as you use a barrier method and birth control, and make sure that neither of you are infected with skin-contact contagius STD's such as Herpes and HPV, then that is fine. Unless you are ready to have children, which in my opinion, should be reserved for times after childhood and adolescence.

[nullandvoid123]

My shits are a beautiful thing. lol best thing ive heard all day

[*-tick tock-*]

Ugh, Its only religious creetons that didnt score in high school that don't want anyone else to. lol

I'm tired of people saying sex is a beutiful thing. that comes from the people who have never had sex i guess. But when your pants are half down and your trying to find a good position and her foot keeps smacking you in the side of the head...ugh....how godly.


hmmm i say that sex is a beautiful thing and i have experienced it myself..lol so technically u cant say that people saying its beautiful comes from the unexperienced. but whatever lol and no..ur feet dont have to hit the side of someones head...haha it all depends on the positions i guess???? i never did that.

personally.. i have experienced and i think its beautiful that im sharing it with someone i most truly care about, and love... i look at sex for me and him as making love (lol)

and to whoever said its like shits (something like that)..LOL ...after shitting u dont wind up pregnant... and u no longer have to deal with any of ur left over shits once it leaves ur body..but with sex...if u or ur partner winds up pregnant...its ur responsibility that will live on..... shits arent like that lol

thats just my opinion i aint trying to start nothing im just saying lol

[Pink-Floyd]

No Way, I wud never wait

[Englishkid]

I would never wait i don'\t plan to get married untill like above 30 years old cause i don't want to get held down for all my life by someone else. So i plan to ahve sex at like 18

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I cant rele wait until I have sex, so I think that it is perfectly fine to have sex b4 getting married. Im all for it

[ThePhantom]

I don't plan on waiting till im 23 to have sex, but i dont plan on having sex when im 14 so i will just have to go with the choice where if i am truly in love, it will happen naturally

[MasterCujo]

Well, I'm probably not waiting cause if there is a woman I really love, than there is no stopping it, but on the topic of it being a beautiful thing. I totaly agree. The only reason it was EVER percieved as bad and disquisting was that the world(mostly the church) didn 't want whimen to be as equaly treated as men. It used to be we were all equal, but then some men in the church got the idea that they should be more important then women, because some people would worship whimen gods. So they had whimen portrayed as lower beings, and that sex was a horrible thing. So, back to the topic, sex was meant to bbe a beaurtful thing, and always was, untill several hundred years ago. I think if the right time comes, ull know.