I fancy my friends, help?????????????????

[Requin]

Urrgh, how do i start
Well i have this friend who's a girl. I've only just got to know her well this year as i am in more of her classes and she and her mates have started to hang around with us. I didn't fancy her before but now for some reason, i'm starting to notice her. I mean i'm really getting attracted to her, i saw her legs last week when it was hot, and i got aroused straight away, and yet i saw others and got nothing.
I'm so confused, i've masturbated over her several times now and i'm not sure what to do. Yesterday we were talking about short shorts, and sleepovers! Christ i struggled through that, i was getting all sorts of images in my head. I mean we're not close friends, but we're mates, and it's not just me, another kid who i know clearly fancies her and everyone makes a fuss of them that they fancy each other.
The next problem is my mate, who's a boy. I'm starting to get attratcted to him too! I've masturbated over both of them. I think that the fancying the boy, we'll call him 'T', is just hormones. So i'm not so bothered about that, it's the girl i'm worried about. Should i ask her out, not say anything and hope it will pass, or should i just fancy her and not tell her?
Help
Advice please, :-)

[byee]

Isn't adolescence grand?

Listen, we Yanks would say she's hot, who wouldn't get turned on by a hot girl? And why on earth wouldn't you want to go out with a hot girl, even if you don't do anything more sexually with her than you already are, there's just something about that energy that's great!

So if you fancy her, then I say go for it straight away! Just take it slow, don't necessarily start with anything more than a 'Hi!', maybe go for a walk or for a burger or something. It will be easier if you remember that all these thoughts you're having are NOT visible to her!

I bet she's waiting for you right now.

[Nihilus]

Ask her out!!! What can happen? go for it. Nice post Iamsam

[kerry]

Talk to the girl ask her out !!!!!! :rolleyes::P

[Requin]

Thanks for the advice!
But what i'm saying is will she be a bit freaked out cause were mates?
Thanks :-)

[Oblivion]

Most good relationships start out as friendships.

Maybe lead into it, and if she starts to get freaked, let it be and forget it.

Good luck :)

[lilthinker]

i have a simular problem cuz the guy i lyk is almost my best mate

[Spunky]

I would say just start for flirt with her a little bit and see her reaction. If it's a good one then ask her out but if you see that she dosent like it or pulls away then I wouldent ask her out because it might jeperdize your friendship. Also if she does pull away give it some time, maybe she just dosent see it in you yet. I had that happent to me once, their was this girl I really liked and I started flirting and I could tell she started to get uncomfortable so I stop and let it go (not saying I still didn't have a crush on her) then like a month later she started to flirt with me and then we went out. Hope that helps

[Oblivion]

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