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themanwhoneverwould
June 12th, 2008, 01:11 PM
hi.

i have a few questions

please just answer all you can

1 - does having an interest in male body's make you gay? Say, looking at other boys in the PE changing rooms.

2 - does it make someone gay to want to masturbate with men, or have sexual contact with them?

3 - Does it make you gay to NOT be sexually attracted to women?

4 - If when masturbating chemicals get released into the body and is when many boys/men question their sexuality. if this is the case, this could be the whole reason many men are unsure of their sexuality. and if they didn't masturbate (as if we are gunna stop) then we would find it easier to know our sexuality?

5 - does fantisising being gay, make you gay?
5 -

confusedboy
June 12th, 2008, 01:19 PM
i feel the same way

themanwhoneverwould
June 12th, 2008, 01:34 PM
i feel the same way

i just want to discover myself. so if anyone could answer the questions. PLEASE DO

wazzler7999
June 12th, 2008, 01:42 PM
hi.

i have a few questions

please just answer all you can

1 - does having an interest in male body's make you gay? Say, looking at other boys in the PE changing rooms.

2 - does it make someone gay to want to masturbate with men, or have sexual contact with them?

3 - Does it make you gay to NOT be sexually attracted to women?

4 - If when masturbating chemicals get released into the body and is when many boys/men question their sexuality. if this is the case, this could be the whole reason many men are unsure of their sexuality. and if they didn't masturbate (as if we are gunna stop) then we would find it easier to know our sexuality?

5 - does fantisising being gay, make you gay?
5 -


1. no its most likely hormones

2. lol no its just hormones

3. typical affect of puberty

4.ehh...hmmm it might affect it, someone on vt was makign a diary to stop masturbating and he said that when he stopped he seemed more attracted to girls

5. no

The Batman
June 12th, 2008, 01:46 PM
This, to me, seems like it has little to do with hormones and it's sorta curiosity/bisexuality if these were just individual things then I wouldn't think anything about it but as a whole I'm starting to think that your not 100% straight. Just wait till puberty is nearing its end and then try and decide whether your gay/straight/bisexual.

themanwhoneverwould
June 12th, 2008, 01:48 PM
1. no its most likely hormones

2. lol no its just hormones

3. typical affect of puberty

4.ehh...hmmm it might affect it, someone on vt was makign a diary to stop masturbating and he said that when he stopped he seemed more attracted to girls

5. no
Thanks for the advice! im sure you have helped me and confusedboy a lot!

This, to me, seems like it has little to do with hormones and it's sorta curiosity/bisexuality if these were just individual things then I wouldn't think anything about it but as a whole I'm starting to think that your not 100% straight. Just wait till puberty is nearing its end and then try and decide whether your gay/straight/bisexual.
So you dont think im straight. Well i am attracted to women, but only emotionally.

The Batman
June 12th, 2008, 01:54 PM
Your still young though so don't really try and label yourself I don't really know you outside of what you posted so I don't really have a full grasp of who you are. It doesn't matter if I think your straight or not, because I'm not the one deciding who you are to date or whatever so don't take what I put to heart. If you find a girl you like then start dating her or if you find a guy you like start dating him, it doesn't matter to me and the only thing that should matter to you is your happiness.

themanwhoneverwould
June 12th, 2008, 01:56 PM
Your still young though so don't really try and label yourself I don't really know you outside of what you posted so I don't really have a full grasp of who you are. It doesn't matter if I think your straight or not, because I'm not the one deciding who you are to date or whatever so don't take what I put to heart. If you find a girl you like then start dating her or if you find a guy you like start dating him, it doesn't matter to me and the only thing that should matter to you is your happiness.


i see what you are getting at.

I hope im not gay (i have nothing against gays thow) i just want to have a family, yatta yatta yatta. and nowadays who can deffine 'normal'

notsure101
June 12th, 2008, 05:45 PM
Most of the question s have hormones as answer and you may just be curuios

LifeIsMyJoke
June 12th, 2008, 06:04 PM
[QUOTE=themanwhoneverwould;302682]hi.
i have a few questions

please just answer all you can

1 - does having an interest in male body's make you gay? Say, looking at other boys in the PE changing rooms.

No, this does not make you gay. Around your age, when hormones are developing, it is natural to be curious, and this is all part and parcel of the early stages of puberty.


2 - does it make someone gay to want to masturbate with men, or have sexual contact with them?

Once again, its all part of the curiosity of early puberty.


3 - Does it make you gay to NOT be sexually attracted to women?

Not at your age man, but to be gay you need to be physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to MEN - not being attracted to women isn't necessarily gay.


4 - If when masturbating chemicals get released into the body and is when many boys/men question their sexuality. if this is the case, this could be the whole reason many men are unsure of their sexuality. and if they didn't masturbate (as if we are gunna stop) then we would find it easier to know our sexuality?

You could be on to something!


5 - does fantisising being gay, make you gay?

It doesn't make you gay, but if you add alot of these factors you have mentioned, you don't seem very heterosexual :o

themanwhoneverwould
June 13th, 2008, 02:22 PM
Most of the question s have hormones as answer and you may just be curuios

well thanks for the help guys.

I started chatting to this girl who i dont normally chat to in class. and well :wub::wub::wub::wub::wub:

but she doesnt even notice me :(:(:(