Whats Acceptable As In Teen Sex??

[dannyboy1234help]

Me and my gf have recently taken our relationship further by havin oral she wants to go all the way and so do i it feels ok but is it ok because if anything goes rong ILL be the blame but then again if a condom is used it should be ok RIGHT???


ptb help

[The Batman]

Since your asking us I don't think your ready, just because it feels good doesn't mean you're ready to do it. Just give it some time till you are both ready to handle the responsibilities and consequences that could come along with it. Also how old are you that might help us out more. Another thing is that condom's aren't 100% guaranteed to work so don't bet your future on a latex tube that might or might not work.

[dannyboy1234help]

wen i say it feels good i meen im happy with it i want to its i want to no wat laws say coz i beleive if it feels right then go ahead but its just if we get busted
oh im 13

[The Batman]

I'd say wait a couple years because your only 13 and you still have a little more maturing to do both physically and mentally and trust me it'll be better for both of you if you wait.

[Antares]

Boys Puberty :arrow: General Puberty

[Hyper]

I'll repeat what DarkWing basically said.

Your too young wait a few years. It'll be better both mentally & physically.

And yeah always use a condom, even if you go ahead and do it right now we can't stop you just use a condom properly..

[Patchy]

Right I recently had sex with my gf, however we waited a lonnggggg time before we both admitted we were wanting to and ready to.

don't rush into it because as everyone said your 13, your still quite young and shouldnt really be aiming to have sex at such a young age. I would say wait at least 6 months, to make sure you are really ready for it. But I would wait until your at least 15 since thats when relationships start to change and become more mature.

[Close102]

if you have to think twice dont do it. or if you dont listen to that, do what feels right. AND if you dont listen to that, think about the worst case cenario. just be careful and wear a condom as you said you will.

[theman7748]

dude i would just wait because if something goes wrong ur both in trouble and ur only thirteen wait till ur like 16.... it will be better and you'll be more mature to handle the situation...


just keep witht the oral for now i guess...

[Sogeking]

Boys Puberty :arrow: General Puberty

it should be moved to relationships and dating

[Antares]

it should be moved to relationships and dating

Its a sex ed question so it could go either way to be honest but I think it is fine here.

Also, next time report it instead of making a post about it.

[Θάνατος]

13 is too young to be rusing inot sex, wait until it is right. You will have the rest of your life for sex.

[Nihilus]

Condoms can break so they aren't 100% safe. Wear a condom if you do go all the way. Great post LightxInxDarkness, Hyper, and Patchy. Rep +

[byee]

Are you 13? Is that right? If so, you're too young for sex.

Having the urge and having the availability does not mean that it is either a good idea, nor a good thing. Sex is more about orgasm and getting laid, it's very intimate and very personal and very emotional, abilities and awareness that take time to develop.

Yes, there's the whole 'responsibility' thing, but there's also that other stuff, too. It will be better when your physical maturity is matched by your emotional maturity. Give it time, it osunds like you're doing enough now to keep you happy.

[clr9823]

Although you think it will be fun, people in my class have done it and say it's embarasing and not that fun. I'm 14 and I won't have sex until I'm at least 16 (for legal reasons). Leave it, and it will be more fun.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Yea I would wait plus you don't sound ready and often times sex is a relationship ruiner. Also as Darthrage said condoms break and you don't want to be in my situation at 13.

[fliter149]

well first off i would wait a little bit till your older then maybe first get a condom yes they dont always work but also use spermacide kills your sperm so its highly unlikely that youll have a kid

[byee]

I'll add my voice to the chorus here: At 13 you're too young for sex.
There's a huge difference between wanting sex and having it available to you, and actually being in a place where you're ready for it emotionally. Sex is more than orgasm, and the concerns should be for more than pregnancy (although that's an issue, too). There are a lot of feelings and emotions that are involved, too. If you cannot appreciate all this, then it indicates you're not ready.

[Neverender]

teen sex is acceptable? the only reason anyone does anything for thrills anymore is because you get in trouble if your caught

[ktkurbst0mp]

Thirteen, is way too young.


And let me say something...
Just because your girlfriend says she wants to, doesn't really mean she does.
Some girls are like that.
She may just really like you and wants you to stay with her/like her more.
And she thinks that's the way to do it.

but really you should wait until you're both more mature.

[Master Bait]

I dont think your ready. You'll be ready once you know by yourself.

For your age, its illegal. Period.

[Neverender]

jesus christ your 13?

what in holy hell are you doin thinkin about sex with your girlfriend at 13? i wouldn't care and would support you if you were screwin around with your friends because thats normal, just experimenting, but wtf?

[BeautifulTragedy]

Anything goes dude.

[bogdanhz]

man just go with the flow,if i was as lucky as you i would let the girl decide.