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SportsDude
June 11th, 2008, 01:29 AM
My friend and i have been hanging out and lately he has been hinting that he would like to fool around
i am pretty open but i dont really no how to react
wazzler7999
June 11th, 2008, 02:20 AM
i wouldn't recommend it it can ruin friendships and/or make one awkward
LifeIsMyJoke
June 11th, 2008, 04:32 AM
Hey SportsDude.

Yeah wazzler has a decent point, this sort of behaviour can create an incredible awkwardness between the two of you, possibly ruining your friendship.

And don't ever feel pressured into anything, just because your friend hints at it. If you are comfortable, and confused (the two c's) then this might be a possible answer for you, but unless that is the case, I wouldn't recommend it at all.
byee
June 11th, 2008, 11:37 AM
The question is that you don't know how to react? As in what to feel? Say?Do?

Only you can decide how to react to this (or anything, for that matter). However, if in doubt, you might want to have a convo with him and find out what he really means here. By getting more info, you are better able to determine what it is he has in mind, and then decide if it's OK for you.
Patchy
June 11th, 2008, 12:26 PM
The question is that you don't know how to react? As in what to feel? Say?Do?

Only you can decide how to react to this (or anything, for that matter). However, if in doubt, you might want to have a convo with him and find out what he really means here. By getting more info, you are better able to determine what it is he has in mind, and then decide if it's OK for you.

A great answer Gavin!

My advice would be, don't let yourself get pressurised into anything, if your uncomfortable doing that sorta stuff with him make it clear that your not up for it. Doing it can make friendships awkward and even ruin them, however sometimes it can make you closer mates and a enjoyable experience.
notsure101
June 11th, 2008, 01:29 PM
Well its your choice but i could make you two seem more awkward to be around but its up to u
BlackBetty
June 12th, 2008, 09:10 AM
It is all up to you!!!
Requin
June 12th, 2008, 10:35 AM
Yeah, it's completely up to you. But it can and sometimes does ruin friendships, however sometimes it makes your frienships stronger, but this does depend on your friend and how far you take it. Most would advise against it, and i agree. It's up to u. :-)