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Trickster
June 10th, 2008, 08:40 PM
Im bisexual (HURRY FOR ME) and im open with it. My school is open minded and homophobics get beat up. Since ive come out people havent been treating me different except the girls. This one girl i kno who is bisexual to started groping and attacking me sexual and alot of others have to. AND I MEAN ALOT. like when i walk past them and i wave and say hi they wave their hands near my ass. Im not complaining it fun im just wondering why girls do this alot when they find out your a boy and come out as bi or gay. :D

Mr. Smithers
June 11th, 2008, 12:07 AM
If it is bothering you that much, maybe you should talk to your teacher or counselors so maybe they can mediate or come up with a compromise. And this is the same with people abusing you with your sexuality.

And I know what you mean about this certain girl. I have the same kind in my History class. She hates gay men. She says their not "real" men. I just roll my eyes at her and I don't instigate.

Trickster
June 11th, 2008, 06:25 PM
Obviously u didnt read. They are attacking me SEXUALLY they like flirt alot more and are slapping me on the but. They arent being mean they are being sexually active on me and i want to know exactly why. Read before u post

Mr. Smithers
June 11th, 2008, 10:59 PM
I just answered that question.

byee
June 11th, 2008, 11:01 PM
I think they do it because they think it's safe. Your not being heterosexual means that they can flirt with you or do sexual things with you because it doesn't mean the same thing as it would if you were straight. Although it might be 'fun' or flattering for you, when you think about it, it's a little hostile, doing something to you that you do not appreciate.

LifeIsMyJoke
June 12th, 2008, 12:10 AM
Howdy, I too am bisexual, and I've never been as open, but a fair few people know ... And I've never had this behaviour, or any thing of the sort, directed at me.

If you are being "attacked sexually" it needs to stop. It can't become an accepted part of your life bro, no matter how much you say you enjoy it.

But as Sam said, I think its because they see bisexuals as a more ... sexual ... being, and feel safer doing so.

I would try and avoid growing up as the guy that everyone likes to sexually abuse, even in fun, as it doesn't give a good reputation, and can grow very quickly to something more serious and sinister.

ssgliberty
June 12th, 2008, 01:53 PM
i too am bi i think if you want it to stop avoid thesse girls or go to an adult like your parents or a teacher or principle or counsoler but it does have to stop. :D :)

dogman
June 13th, 2008, 08:23 AM
But Im injured....

WTF how did that help

If you like it, then i suppose you could let it keep happening, but if you in any way feel uncomfortable about it, then i suggest you talk to them or speak to a counciler,

I think they may be doing this because (and this is only my opinion) that you may be gay, many people say they r bi before gay and i think that many girls find they can be alot more sexual and stuff like that around gay men because they know that the man will no see it in the same way as a normal guy would

Trickster
June 13th, 2008, 05:36 PM
No no i like it. Its not being "attacked" i guess i used the wrong word. Its like they are more sexual and stuff and i like it and im not unfonfortable with it. They flirt and stuff and grind and well im pretty sexual to so i like it and dont mind at all.