Mutual Masturbation

[CollegeHockey]

Would I be considered gay if I asked someone to masturbate with me even though I'm straight? We talk about Masturbation and girls all the time so it wouldnt be out of the blue.

[MoveAlong]

many straight guys, friends or not, may take it the wrong way.
To answer your question, it depends on the person. Some people know that it's just being curious, but others will call you gay. We don't know how your friends will react

Really I think it's too big of a risk and I wouldn't do it. But that's just my opinion.

[theOperaGhost]

If the situation seems really right, then I would do it, but only if it was a really good friend and I knew he wouldn't mind doing it.

To answer your question, doing it a few times does not make you gay. However, if you really like it and do it a lot, you might be bi or gay. But right now you are just curious.

[kerry]

Would I be considered gay if I asked someone to masturbate with me even though I'm straight? We talk about Masturbation and girls all the time so it wouldnt be out of the blue.

no you wouldn't be considered gay.

[dogman]

it depends on the person, some people may take it as being gay, however, if the person says no, it means no, and if they say no,i would advise you to just laugh it of a a joke, but if you do it more than once, you may be gay, but dont worry about your sexuality, do whatever makes u happy

[Requin]

No it wouldn't be considered gay, it's just being curious. However, most people say that it's too big a risk as it could ruin your friendship, and to be honest this is quite true, but it does depend on your friend, i've done it with my friends, but i was VERY lucky, think about it first.

[elegant egotist]

I seriously think that's extremely weird.
But, it's good that you have such a close friend.
You might (deep down inside) like your friend.
You're becoming sexually comfortable with him..
I would have to say you have a minor crush on him.

...then again it's just my opinion.

[GRB123]

try to find the right timeing

[The Pretender]

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[byee]

Some guys would consider mutual masturbation 'gay', others not. Before you actually ask someone to engage in this, you might first take the time to see what their attitudes about it are. That way, you'd avoid an embarassing situation.

[Texmex21]

you arent gay. ur gay when you feel emotions tword the same sex

[CollegeHockey]

I dont really feel like doing it that much anymore.

[Ryandel]

It really depends on how you feel about them. Like if you're physically and sexually attracted to the person you're asking. If that's the case, then I wouldn't say you're gay but most likely curious. Also it depends on you and you're friend, if you guys are open-minded about stuff like sex,j/o-ing, girls etc.
But don't worry about your sexuality, do whatever makes you happy!

[MoveAlong]

you arent gay. ur gay when you feel emotions tword the same sex

that's up to opinion.

A search on Google (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=define%3A+homosexuality) says:
define: homosexuality

sexual desire within the same sex.
www.willdurant.com/glossary.htm

Being attracted to or aroused by members of the same gender. See Sexual Orientation.
allpsych.com/dictionary/dictionary2.html

Sexuality directed toward someone of the same sex.
www.medicinenet.com/klinefelter_syndrome/glossary.htm

a sexual attraction to (or sexual relations with) persons of the same sex
wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn


Sexual orientation is left to opinion - some say physical and emotional attraction, some say it is emotional, and some say just physical.
To people who are bi, they could have emotional attraction to girls but not to guys, although they might not be used to the idea of being with a guy and haven't been around it (so haven't had experience) and just think that they're physically attracted etc. Sexuality is a difficult thing to understand and is totally subjective to the situation!

In this case, you're curious about what masturbating with the same sex is like. That's just curiousity and from what you have told us, you're probably not gay, just a curious straight guy.

[Neverender]

Would I be considered gay if I asked someone to masturbate with me even though I'm straight? We talk about Masturbation and girls all the time so it wouldnt be out of the blue.

no you'd be curious. its normal. i wish i had the guts as you to ask somone to masturbate me/with me.

[MrPinnick17]

DO IT. it's nothing short of amazing. It's dangerous and scary it's like getting ice cream from a black ice cream truck with no decals on it. Will you get killed or will you get some incredibly good ice cream?

[Ryandel]

DO IT. it's nothing short of amazing. It's dangerous and scary it's like getting ice cream from a black ice cream truck with no decals on it. Will you get killed or will you get some incredibly good ice cream?

Lol, I literally had the (0_o) look when I read that. Nice metaphor... I think.:D

[Lil' Kiss]

Lol at metaphor above. I think ti could be very risky but if you get up the urge to try it again i'd wait a week, see if you feel the same way, that you'd like to give it a go and wait for the exact right moment. If he says no, respect it and laugh it off or pretend you were joking. If he says ok then lucky and good for you :) just be prepared to loose a friend. But i don't know your friend like you do, he may not be the kind of guy who'd abandon your friendship over something like a small curious request.

[Kuervo]

i haven't done it with a friend or would i because as others have said it could damage a relationship

[Chris.]

Would I be considered gay if I asked someone to masturbate with me even though I'm straight? We talk about Masturbation and girls all the time so it wouldnt be out of the blue.


You may be considered gay to some people, it all depends on how they take you asking them to do this. But since you say you have talked about it, I say there would be a relatively small chance of this happening.

[xCIRESMx]

It's totally not gay. Your just curious. I mean i talk about that stuff with my friends too and i would wanna masturbate with them but they were probably say it's gay. Even though i don't think it is, i'm just curious.

[Halibut]

if a girl came and asked me that. i would think that would be really weird.

[xCIRESMx]

I'm in the same boat you are man, but i don't think your gay. I wanna do mutual masturbation but my friends would just call me gay. So i think it's too big of a risk.

[nicenbig4u]

i say go for it, and see who can get the other person to cum quicker