am i an ass, or are chicks just crazy

[Hi i am jon]

alright, so when i like a girl i do not act diffrently then i ever do, maybe a little nicer but basicly the same,they never really end up liking me but shh, then when i am talking to some one who just pissed me off recently i get all bitchy to them and am a complete ass, but those girls are the girls that end up liking me, like this one girl the other day she was really depressed and i helped cheer her up she said thank you blah blah blah then she was really depressed again and we were fighting at the time so i was a real ass about it i was like "just go fucking kill yourself" and stuff like that but now we are closer than ever, this happens with a lot of girls too, i dont get it........ so am i an ass......or are girls just crazy and like to be treated badly?...... :?

[nullandvoid123]

are girls just crazy and like to be treated badly?...... lol i doubt it, and i doubt ur an ass either. they probably just know inside that ur a nice guy, so thats why they like you.

[Hi i am jon]

alright now i was talking to the girl who i was an ass too and i just have been my nicer self to her, but i had a bad day today and i was being an ass again and outta no where she says im hott and stuff.........ok i think she is crazy or my assness gets girls horny each one is ok with me ;)

[Elokyn]

don't go forming a habit about being an ass 0_o apparently the girls you know are weak...usually weak girls go for the asshole guys...not saying you're an asshole all the time but quite obviously you have been lately..I mean you said it yourself...

i was a real ass about it i was like "just go fucking kill yourself"

there's no excuse for that....if I were her I'da done knocked you on your ass.....buuuut I'm not

all I can really say is just freakin be nice 0_o

[Hi i am jon]

heh yeah but im tired of being nice to girls when i do its always just a friendship, which i dont mind but im greedy, i just want certain girls.....i mean i dont have a problem getting girls, just have problems getting the ones i want lol.... so im not completly "desperate",

and when i am an ass i dont usually mean for good to come out of it, i mean for it to make the girl stop talking to me but noo every thing changes when i am, but i like that "if I were her I'da done knocked you on your ass" lol.......

[icegemz]

ure not ass as such but u do hav a tendersy 2 actlike 1 tell sum 2 kill themselves is a bit exstreme but the fact that she now likes u is wellcrazys so idunnosounds like the girls u no r a bit nuts lol

[grass]

sum ppl like 2 be abused its like drilled in2 there subconcious mind they mite not even realise it but its there, its like the whole stockholm syndrome thing, well thats wot i think anyway and its the same wiv ppl who r in physically abusive relantionships, they find it really hard 2 leave and even if they do alot of them end up goin back. it mite be that kinda thing or it mite be nufin 2 do wiv that

[kolte]

ure not ass as such but u do hav a tendersy 2 actlike 1 tell sum 2 kill themselves is a bit exstreme but the fact that she now likes u is wellcrazys so idunnosounds like the girls u no r a bit nuts lol

ommmm, i don't.....i uhhhhh, you ommm..........what?

[Elokyn]

ure not ass as such but u do hav a tendersy 2 actlike 1 tell sum 2 kill themselves is a bit exstreme but the fact that she now likes u is wellcrazys so idunnosounds like the girls u no r a bit nuts lol

ommmm, i don't.....i uhhhhh, you ommm..........what?

translation: You're not an ass as such, but you do have a tendency to act like one. Telling someone to kill themselves is a bit extreme, but the fact that she likes you now is...well...crazy so I dunno. Sounds like the girls you know are a bit nuts lol

[ACantstantEar]

Yeah, you don't tell a depressed person to go kill herself. In that instance, you were acting like an ass, but that can't be a sum of your total personality. Be who you are, and the right person will come along. Relax and be a teenager, don't spend valuable time worrying about such a small issue.

[Hi i am jon]

Yeah, you don't tell a depressed person to go kill herself. In that instance, you were acting like an ass, but that can't be a sum of your total personality. Be who you are, and the right person will come along. Relax and be a teenager, don't spend valuable time worrying about such a small issue.

thanks thats actually great advice, i think ill do that!

[Dream]

1. Don't call girls chicks.
2. Don't say girls are crazy or they will knock you on *your* ass.
3. Don't mess with anyone who's depressed. That's really not cool.

I'd say you're either making this up because 1. you're an ass or 2. you have some creepy fantasies.

Or, the girls you know are unstable and you need to chilllllll.

-Dream

[Hi i am jon]

hey dream?

1.There is nothing wrong with calling them "chicks" its the same as them calling us "dudes"...some girls may find it offensive so i will not call them that, but execpt for that i will call girls chick

2. I am not saying all girls, i am just saying the ones i talk to.

3. yeah i know im sorry :(

i am not making this up, and even if i was that big of an ass...why would i make this up?.......and i dont see how that is a fantasy

[Dream]

1. No..you can call them "dudettes", but calling a human being a "chick" literally, a baby chicken is like calling her an animal.

2. In general. If a girl said "all guys are perverted" you'd get pissed. Don't make generalizations.

3. You're forgiven. Just don't do it again.

I said either/or..try to chillax around said girls.

[Hi i am jon]

1. Do not tell me what i can say and can't say....and as for chick that word is slang....not the actual meaning...

2.No i wouldnt, most guys are and i will accecpt its the stero type guy....all people are not the same but still there is the sterotype....

3. :)

[Dream]

1. So you *are* calling them baby chickens?

2. Hasn't anyone ever told you that stereotypes are wrong?

[Hi i am jon]

1. i clearly stated chicks is slang for girls...not baby chickens.

2. yeah but still there are stero types, and there is nothin we can do about that is there....