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bloo ppl
June 6th, 2008, 09:23 PM
ok this is my first time in this area so be ez on me

ok so me and my gf have been dating for 4 months today. and i want to break up w/ her.i mean shes like "in love" w/ me and i dont want love love i just want ya kno teenage love, and i also dont think its going to work out. b/c if i cant even trust her enough to tell her that im bi(btw im bi). then i basicaly cant trust her enough to tell her any thing. but i just dont kno how to break up w/ her. espeacially since this will be the secound time i broke up w/ her. so i need help:(

Rutherford The Brave
June 6th, 2008, 10:09 PM
ok this is my first ime in this area so be ez on me

ok so me and my gf have been dating for 4 months today. and i want to break up w/ her.i mean shes like "in love" w/ me and i dont want love love i just want ya kno teenage love, and i also dont think its going to work out b/c if i cant even trust her enough to tell her im bi(btw in bi). then i basicaly cant trust to tell her any thing. but i just dont kno how to break up w/ her. espeacially since this will be the secound time i broke up w/ her. so i need help:(

I cant stess grammar enough, this made my headache worse. You just have to tell her no strings attached.

kerry
June 7th, 2008, 03:56 PM
ok this is my first time in this area so be ez on me

ok so me and my gf have been dating for 4 months today. and i want to break up w/ her.i mean shes like "in love" w/ me and i dont want love love i just want ya kno teenage love, and i also dont think its going to work out. b/c if i cant even trust her enough to tell her that im bi(btw im bi). then i basicaly cant trust her enough to tell her any thing. but i just dont kno how to break up w/ her. espeacially since this will be the secound time i broke up w/ her. so i need help:(

this is what it says

ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4 months today and i want to break up with her. I mean shes like in love with me and i don't want love.i just want you know teenage love, and also i don't think it is going to workout because if i can't even trust her enough to tell her im bi ( btw im bi ) . Then i basically can't trust her enough to tell her anything. But i just don't know how to break up with her . Espically since this will be the second time i broke up with her.
b/c - because w/ - with

byee
June 7th, 2008, 04:29 PM
Unless both of you are sorta in that same place where you both know it's over, there's really no 'easy' way to end a relationship. The person who wants out is usually the one who has to be the heart breaker.

What this means is that you're not bound to her forever if you don't feel it, you shouldn't stay in something that isn't working for you just because you don't want to hurt her. However, you should keep in mind that she will be upset, and you have an obligation to be kind here. Just tell her the time with her was really great and that you really liked her, but your feelings have changed and you want to end the relationship. Do NOT blame her, talk about the fights or whatever else may or may not have gone on, do't make it seem like it was her fault, or that she had some responsibility in your decision. That's mean (even if it might be true), and she'll have a lot of time to reflect on things and, if she chooses, to figure out what happened, and why. And if her behavior or attutude had anything to do with it.

Rutherford The Brave
June 7th, 2008, 10:23 PM
this is what it says

ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4 months today and i want to break up with her. I mean shes like in love with me and i don't want love.i just want you know teenage love, and also i don't think it is going to workout because if i can't even trust her enough to tell her im bi ( btw im bi ) . Then i basically can't trust her enough to tell her anything. But i just don't know how to break up with her . Espically since this will be the second time i broke up with her.
b/c - because w/ - with

Kerry I can read the "text talk" of a stereotypical teen...

kerry
June 22nd, 2008, 03:27 PM
thats why i made it easier to read !

Ryandel
June 22nd, 2008, 03:45 PM
No way to end it without someone getting hurt. Let's just hope she understand where you're standing at. Best of luck. (Please do use proper grammar next time, I had to reread it a few times. And I didn't notice Kerry's post until after.)

MrPinnick17
June 22nd, 2008, 11:13 PM
Ha not to be mean but you could probably just do what you did the first time you broke up with her and be alright.