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spawn123
June 6th, 2008, 11:29 AM
Uh i dont know how to say this but every time a girl askes me to have sex i get afraid,has this happend to you i mean is this normal or what,cuz sex is new experience for me,thx in advance
Sugaree
June 6th, 2008, 11:54 AM
They may just be playing with you. If it makes you nervous just tell them that you aren't ready.
spawn123
June 6th, 2008, 12:25 PM
no its not about playing with me its the reason why am i afraid of having sex with another girl
Sugaree
June 6th, 2008, 12:28 PM
Well, as I said, if you aren't ready then just tell them. If they keep saying that just ignore them or just tell them flatout "I'm not ready for sex yet. Leave me alone about it"
spawn123
June 6th, 2008, 03:34 PM
thx man
notsure101
June 6th, 2008, 05:24 PM
Yea like Barkin said mabey there just playin with u but if it happnes again just say ur not ready
BlackBetty
June 6th, 2008, 06:54 PM
Why do you become afraid?? Sex should be something you enjoy :).
dogman
June 6th, 2008, 08:26 PM
well it depends, i get the feeling from your Q that many girl s have asked you this, BTW how old r u, u shouldnt have sex because someone asks u to, you should have sex because you want to, and if you feel awkward or something similar, then you shouldnt do it, simple as that, because either your not ready, or this person is not the right person
byee
June 6th, 2008, 10:26 PM
no its not about playing with me its the reason why am i afraid of having sex with another girl

Because you're young and realize you're not ready for this.

So, although you're young, you also sound very mature. The other will catch up, just give it time. Sex is best when the 2 (maturity and desire) are in equal amounts. You're almost halfway there!
spawn123
June 7th, 2008, 05:41 PM
thank u man i felt the releif the second i read this,but altho i am afrraid i want to have sex :)
Medical Kid
June 7th, 2008, 05:50 PM
well maybe hes afraid of the condom (that he may use) might break or something, OR he might get an STD or something, or perhaps hes just too nervous about it all.
doodledum
June 7th, 2008, 07:52 PM
i completely agree with dogman
LifeIsMyJoke
June 7th, 2008, 08:01 PM
Girls that directly ask you for sex are NOT the girls you should be having your first sexual experience with.

Save it for a girl you love, its a special time, and shouldn't be rushed into. IF you are nervous about it, there is nothing pressuring you into doing it.

Sex shouldnt be prepared for, it should just come naturally. Save it for that special girl on that special occasion!!