how to tell parents

[ssgliberty]

how do you tell yer parents you bi if you cant really talk to them about any thing:confused:
im 13

[Sugaree]

Well you need to take time to think about this. It would be better if you would give us your age because then we can give a better answer.

[Serenity]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[notsure101]

write them a letter or sumthing

[ssgliberty]

i dont think that will work but thanks notsure101

[NextToNormal]

just sit down with your parents and talk to them. i know you said you cant really talk to them about anything, but youre going to have to tell them eventually. im not going to promise that its going to be an easy or comfortable conversation to have, especially if your parents are not very accepting. but, just write them a note one day saying that you would like to talk to them on a certain day about something that is very important and personal. by picking a day, you have some time to plan what exactly it is you are going to say to them which will make it a bit easier.

hope this helped

[ssgliberty]

thanks conteadiction i dont know if ethier of those will work but i might try one:D :D

[Sugaree]

Well you are a bit young. You're still growing. Don't worry about this now. Wait for a few years before making this decision.

[notsure101]

like dragons said give it some time and see if u are bi and not some other orientation before growing up

[ssgliberty]

i know i`m by now its taken 5 years to accept my self and admmit it to my self but i just hope my parents freind ect. accept me for who i am and if thay dont thats there problem :D


and thanks for all the advice people :D

[curiousteen]

my parents r kinda strict wit non str8 ppl so its hard for to talk to them so i think u should sit them down together and tell them the truth.

[ssgliberty]

YESSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i finaly told my mom that im bi i wrote her an e-mail and she said she still loves me. thats all i needed to hear thanks everyone for the addvise

[Sugaree]

Good for you then! I'm happy that you did this :)

Have you told your dad yet? If you feel comfortable with deciding this sexuality then I'm not gonna stop ya now. So good for you!

[ssgliberty]

Good for you then! I'm happy that you did this :)

Have you told your dad yet? If you feel comfortable with deciding this sexuality then I'm not gonna stop ya now. So good for you!

i`ve never met my dad but still i finally told my mom:D:D

[LifeIsMyJoke]

Hey mate, its a big call to make at 13 years of age, when you are most likely either in the midst of puberty or have not yet started.

But if you are 100% certain either way, and you really are keen to tell your parents, the best way to do it is to do it straight up. There is no easy way, and if your parents (or mum in this case) really love you, they will love you regardless.

You will be OK mate, and by the end of Puberty you will have possibly decided on one sex that you prefer.

[ssgliberty]

thanks lifeismyjoke i already told her if i change my mind i`ll tell her:D