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Slay3r
June 5th, 2008, 05:00 PM
Well , about 2 houses down the street from me is a girl i have known my whole

life, we havent really talked till a couple days ago, She seems really interested

in me. She has come over the past days and we hung out on my tramponline,

She has grabbed my hand a coupled of times and she has told her friend at

school she liked me alot, She has came over today also , but had to go back to

her house and eat.

She told her one friend she wanted to have sex with me , but she had sex once

before.

I KNOW that i could have sex with her anyday now and I really like her also,

We could become a couple if this works out.

I think im to small for her though.

Im 16 and my dick is 6 inches long and is like 3-4 inches wide / girth

I will wear protection also , but i want to know if you think she is going to

think im to small or somthing? I know people say size doesnt matter but I

think it does , but girls dont say anything ..

Please Reply back

Jesse
June 5th, 2008, 05:12 PM
Well my first bit of advice is that, if you're that nervous about it, don't have sex with her. Simple as that.
If you feel you must have sex, no, she will not judge you by your penis. Most guys have this anxiety about it when they are actually average. YOU are average, you'll be fine.

Θάνατος
June 5th, 2008, 05:16 PM
Well forst of all be careful of the rumors about her wanting to have sex with you. She might like you so build a realtionship with her first before trying to have sex with her. Second there is nothing to worry about with your penis size. If yoiu are 6" your penis is fine. Don't worry about yoiur size just have fun and be careful and us a condom if you two have sex.

Oblivion
June 5th, 2008, 05:35 PM
To answer your main question-
6 inches is the average for a grown adult, so if she thinks it's too small... She will never be happy :D

Secondly, i would advise not having sex with her until you know her better and are at least a couple already. You said you might become a couple if it goes well... Thats not what should happen, you should be a couple, THEN if THAT goes well have sex

Having a baby in high school sucks, so make sure you wear protection no matter what she says. And ask her to take birth control for extra protection

Rutherford The Brave
June 5th, 2008, 05:36 PM
Well , about 2 houses down the street from me is a girl i have known my whole

life, we havent really talked till a couple days ago, She seems really interested

in me. She has come over the past days and we hung out on my tramponline,

She has grabbed my hand a coupled of times and she has told her friend at

school she liked me alot, She has came over today also , but had to go back to

her house and eat.

She told her one friend she wanted to have sex with me , but she had sex once
before.

I KNOW that i could have sex with her anyday now and I really like her also,

We could become a couple if this works out.

I think im to small for her though.

Im 16 and my dick is 6 inches long and is like 3-4 inches wide / girth

I will wear protection also , but i want to know if you think she is going to

think im to small or somthing? I know people say size doesnt matter but I

think it does , but girls dont say anything ..

Please Reply back


Im sorry but Im simply disgusted by these comments. Basing a whole relationship around sex, not only is that immature thats childish. Your not even aware of the reprocussions. Condoms don't always work! Thats the reason why my fiance is pregnant! Also sex is something you do when your ready, not because its fun and you have nothing to do on a friday night.

notsure101
June 5th, 2008, 07:00 PM
if she really likes u she wont care wat ur " size " is

KGTM how old r u?

Sugaree
June 5th, 2008, 07:05 PM
Well first off, putting a relation around one thing like sex, is not the best way to get a relationship.

You need to take relationships slow. Get to know her, go on dates, and then when you both feel that the time is right, you can have sex. I agree with KGTM that it is disgusting to base a relationship around sex.

Secondly, you think that you are 'too small' in your words for penis size. You have a 6 inch erect penis that is 3-4 inches in girth. That isn't small. This is the average size. And I am glad that you are planning on using protection. You are taking this cautiously when it comes to condoms but only have sex when you are ready! Don't rush out and have it.

Thridly, it shouldn't matter if she's already had sex. Sex is a very special bond between a man and a woman. It's the ultimate expression for love. But you do need to be cautious about this.

So please just take it all slow. It will do you good to get to know her more and then become boyfriend and girlfriend.

japanman
June 5th, 2008, 07:08 PM
If she thinks your dick size is small and she doesnt like you then dump but dude relaxed your actually normal size for an adult.

Rutherford The Brave
June 5th, 2008, 07:28 PM
What also makes me so mad is why everyone is so wooried about the size of theiir penis. Your penis is used for mainly one function and that is to reproduce, and they all do that, size has no effect on it. Plus be all concerned about it makes males and females seem like pornstars because the girl wants a big penis and the guy wants to have a big penis. I just dont understand and I find it rather annoying.:blowup::bigsmash:

BlackBetty
June 5th, 2008, 10:00 PM
It will be inside of her bro, chill.

byee
June 5th, 2008, 10:04 PM
Well first off, putting a relation around one thing like sex, is not the best way to get a relationship.

You need to take relationships slow. Get to know her, go on dates, and then when you both feel that the time is right, you can have sex. I agree with KGTM that it is disgusting to base a relationship around sex.

Secondly, you think that you are 'too small' in your words for penis size. You have a 6 inch erect penis that is 3-4 inches in girth. That isn't small. This is the average size. And I am glad that you are planning on using protection. You are taking this cautiously when it comes to condoms but only have sex when you are ready! Don't rush out and have it.

Thridly, it shouldn't matter if she's already had sex. Sex is a very special bond between a man and a woman. It's the ultimate expression for love. But you do need to be cautious about this.

So please just take it all slow. It will do you good to get to know her more and then become boyfriend and girlfriend.


Wow...13, huh?

Anyway, there are a lot of reasons to have sex, I suppose everyone needs to figure that out for themselves. However, having sex (think for a moment exactly what that is, OK? Picture it in your mind) with another person simply because of their availability is like the dog that lifts its leg simply because of the availability of a fire hydrant. And probably as satisfying.

I like the idea of you exploring a relationship with someone who seems to like you and who you have fun with. Maybe get to know her from the inside, take your time. Girls are really fun and really special and really neat, much different than us guys, but you have to take the time (and control those urges) to discover that. And, with time, if you and she 'click', if there's a connection and a bond, them maybe you and she might consider a physical component. But don't rush it, or enter into it simply because you think 'she might'. You'll likely miss the best part of what makes them girls.

*gets off soapbox*

curiousteen
June 6th, 2008, 01:00 AM
if u want to go for it, its not the about size of ur dick its about wut u can do wit it,
so dont think ur always small

irishguy
June 6th, 2008, 02:47 AM
6 inches is the average size so dont even worry about being small.
and dont have sex with her unless u are sure ur ready...
try having a relationship with her first and see where that goes..

wazzler7999
June 6th, 2008, 03:45 AM
if she really likes u as u stated quite well then i dont think it will really matter

Rutherford The Brave
June 6th, 2008, 05:47 AM
if she really likes u as u stated quite well then i dont think it will really matter

It does matter seeing as they both are obviously not ready to handle something of this magnitude. Things like this just don't go away, there are rumors, usaully feeling, attachment, anger that follows these kinds of things.

Requin
June 6th, 2008, 10:14 AM
Well...if she doesn't want to have sex or be in a relationship with you, then you shouldn't be with her in the first place. nuf said. :-(

My_Toes_Are_Cold
June 6th, 2008, 10:17 AM
Sex can ruin relationships. For the love of God, don't rely on it.

Sugaree
June 6th, 2008, 11:59 AM
It will be inside of her bro, chill.

What was that post for? Waste of a post :roll:


Sex can ruin relationships. For the love of God, don't rely on it.

Well, I see your point. It can ruin relationships to some extent. But, I also ned to dissagree with your point. Sex is for the sole purpose of reproducing and bringing new life into the world.

I also agree that people rely on it in some relationships. But, I have to say that most people just rush out and have sex instead of taking time to think it all over before it happens. Many things have to come to mind when you are going to have it such as "How will he/she feel about this?" "What if he/she isn't ready?" "Will this ruin my relationship with him/her?" among other things.