Gay but people are interested

[///James///]

I just want to know how people handel being gay/lesbian but having girls/boys liking you.

Since I left school last June, over the summer holidays I have been asked out I think 6 times by now. (2 people at drama, 3 by (as i call them) "stalkers" (or people who seen me and their friends know me) and then 1 my best friend. I turned all 6 down, the hardest was my best friend cos she started crying and stuff which was hard for me to take, but whats hard is her always hugging me and stuff!

So how do you cope!?

[what the?]

i dont! people dont ask me out!!! the only relationship i've EVER been in was with this girl before i started to question my sexuality and i asked her out! oh well :)

[///James///]

i was only straight for a while but i still though boys were hot, that was my Bi-Stage! I asked this girl out, she said no. Then we were friends but then she was a bitch to me, then she came crawlling back after a while and asked me out (I think cos the list was completed and my name is there) now she thinks im hot, not a chance though. Its either now or never, thats your choice!

[what the?]

i wish someone thought i was hot. girl, boy i dont care anymore. do you kno what i mean? maybe if i was more popular people wouldn't be as cautious about telling me that they think im hot.

[///James///]

ye i understand. its actually wierd cos im not popular, just a pretty face. Most girls around here are total sluts they will sleep with a guy, have his kids then marry him then ask about his intersts. It puts me off girls. Gay guys are more geniune I think.

You will find someone, sometime. I went years thinking there was no one for me, then Rudi (Gatwick) came along and it all changed!

[what the?]

aw, isnt that sweet

[Φρανκομβριτ]

awww, sweetie. I usually get into meaningless relationships with girls for 2-3 weeks. Keeps up my straight appearnce. Im usually friends with them after, and i end up explaining the situation (unless they're a gossiping whore)

[kolte]

I dated this one chick for about 4 months, then I moved. we keep in touch.

[///James///]

me keep up a straight appearence, wat straight apearence. i ve been called gay since i was in 4th class!! its ages im used to it, no girls liked me, so really thats it. besides i dnt like meaningless relaionships, i like ones that mean something (like me and you rudi! :D [ps. i love you!!!])

[Crispy]

I have. I told her that I was asexual, not the case I'm gay. She took it hard and still thinks that it is her that is the problem.

[///James///]

you told her you were asexual? as in you have no dick or vagina!! r u serious?

[Φρανκομβριτ]

no silly, a sexual is ur not attracted to anyone

[castillo_98]

That's some nice, meticulous thinking Rudi! :D

And James, I know what you mean, I used to get picked on all the time for the same thing. Even before I kinda realised it. I guess if you're not sporty, not very popular etc you get labelled and teased as 'gay'

And of course, if you're gay, you get called gay :D

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

i dont! people dont ask me out!!! the only relationship i've EVER been in was with this girl before i started to question my sexuality and i asked her out! oh well :)

me too

[BeautyFromPain]

I just want to know how people handel being gay/lesbian but having girls/boys liking you.

Since I left school last June, over the summer holidays I have been asked out I think 6 times by now. (2 people at drama, 3 by (as i call them) "stalkers" (or people who seen me and their friends know me) and then 1 my best friend. I turned all 6 down, the hardest was my best friend cos she started crying and stuff which was hard for me to take, but whats hard is her always hugging me and stuff!

So how do you cope!?

it really doesnt make no never mind to me..i know guys like me and they make it obvious but they know i have a gf and theyre ok with it.

[Crispy]

you told her you were asexual? as in you have no dick or vagina!! r u serious?
Yes, I told her that. But asexual means I'm attracted to neither. Which is partially true.