Cousin trouble

[saced]

Over Memorial Day Weekend, my two cousins and I were playing on my WiiSports on my new Wii. We had been swimming earlier that day and we were all still in our swimming trunks. Dillan, who is the same age as me, had an erection the entire time. He kept saying he was so horny and John, who is a few years younger than us, was looking at him is such a confused way. Dillan finally stripped off his trunks and started masturbating. He then started doing things that I won't go into detail here. Following his orgasm, he made John and me strip and start masturbating. John and I weren't going to contradict him because he has his second degree in the Karate black-belt and is quite good in boxing. When we had ejaculated, Dillan licked our cum up (including around our dick). We couldn't stop him because he was holding us down with his massive arms. What do I do next time because telling him to stop is not an option because he won't listen?

[Jesse]

Tell his parents, tell your parents, tell someone you trust. Someone needs to know about this.

[Antares]

Well honestly, I really think that you should do either one of the few things below:

1. Say no. That is a very powerful word if you know how to use it. If you get a firm tone and say "no" then you will be able to get anything you want and at that time. People often beat around the bush to avoid it but that is your first line of defense. "No."

2. You can begin avoiding him. Just don't hang out with him anymore alone without being in the presence of an adult. He will definately not do or mention anything abotu doing that if an adult is within earshot of him. So that is a good option also.

3. Tell your parents. If you tell your parents there is a VERY STRONG possibility that he will get in trouble. Now there is a chance that they won't believe you but that kinda varies by parent. If you can really talk to them, starting out in a very serious manner and basically demanding them to talk. They will know something is wrong when you begin in a serious tone.

4. Beat him up. Your cousin and him can jump him:P
Kick him in the balls or something :P
This is probably not the best idea but it is worth a try :D

I hope this helped and good luck.

[Jesse]

4. Beat him up. Your cousin and him can jump him:tongue:
Kick him in the balls or something :tongue:
This is probably not the best idea but it is worth a try :biggrin2:

Hahahahaha, nice. I like this one. :p

[Antares]

Hahahahaha, nice. I like this one. :p

Well thank you. :P

EDIT:

I forgot. To the OP please do not make multiple threads.

[iJack]

Well honestly, I really think that you should do either one of the few things below:

1. Say no. That is a very powerful word if you know how to use it. If you get a firm tone and say "no" then you will be able to get anything you want and at that time. People often beat around the bush to avoid it but that is your first line of defense. "No."

2. You can begin avoiding him. Just don't hang out with him anymore alone without being in the presence of an adult. He will definately not do or mention anything abotu doing that if an adult is within earshot of him. So that is a good option also.

3. Tell your parents. If you tell your parents there is a VERY STRONG possibility that he will get in trouble. Now there is a chance that they won't believe you but that kinda varies by parent. If you can really talk to them, starting out in a very serious manner and basically demanding them to talk. They will know something is wrong when you begin in a serious tone.

4. Beat him up. Your cousin and him can jump him:P
Kick him in the balls or something :P
This is probably not the best idea but it is worth a try :D

I hope this helped and good luck.

Exactly what he said, but telling an adult is number one. If they believe you, and someone will, they help you, and punish him. Only, ONLY attack him if he does it again, and aim for the balls or grab his head and push it down to his crotch, he wont be able to kick you and John could go help.

[Antares]

Exactly what he said, but telling an adult is number one. If they believe you, and someone will, they help you, and punish him. Only, ONLY attack him if he does it again, and aim for the balls or grab his head and push it down to his crotch, he wont be able to kick you and John could go help.

His John or my John (me)? :confused::rolleyes::P

[iJack]

His John or my John (me)? :confused::rolleyes::P

His John, or you could:P

[saced]

Thanks guys, this will really help in the future.

[theOperaGhost]

I'd say to tell your parents and have your younger cousin tell his parents. He'd probably get in trouble. Or when you guys are together, just don't go somewhere alone. Make sure someone else is there.

[notsure101]

Wells tell ur parents and if ur that small compared to him kick him in his nuts

[saced]

Thanks for all the advice you guys gave me. That should come in handy this weekend when we have another family "party".

[byee]

Tell me this is a joke, OK? Please?

If it's true, frankly I think you need to tell your folks. That's because what he did was really assault, and if he's doing it to you, there's an unfortunately good chance he's doing it with others. This is not good, you have an obligation to not only protect yourselves, but others, too. And he needs some help here.

But please, tell me it's a joke.

[Axellance]

this is verry wrong of him you need to tell someone because this is sexual abuse. he is not allowed to make you do these things and hlding you down to lick up your cum is wrong. tell someone because next time he might take it farther.

[underoath12192]

Don't wait until the next family "party" as you put it. You need to say something immediatly.

[Nihilus]

Tell his parent, your parents, and if you have to go to a adult you trust. Tell he should never do that agian.

[notsure101]

Isn't that considered abuse? or am i thinkin of soemthing elese

[Brandon639]

Isn't that considered abuse? or am i thinkin of soemthing elese

No you have it right, thats sexual assault/abuse.

You really need to do something, that kind of thing is just sick. You seriously need to go to a parent, and if need be, the police. Sexual assault is against the law.

[LifeIsMyJoke]

It'd be interesting to know how old you all are.

This is sexual abuse, and even if you don't wish to notify the police, you should tell SOMEONE. Telling us here is a good first step man, but as much as we all care for you, its hard for us to physically do anything about it.

We can be the emotional police, but not the physical.

So I know it would be very hard and awkward to tell your parents, so I honestly think the first step would be to tell your cousin to stop it, that you aren't interested ... Be blunt and honest.

If he hurts you for it, then that would be a good time to go and tell your parents, but try reasoning with him.

If he continues, this is a form of sexual abuse, and if you are under 16 years of age, and he is over, this is statutory, and the police should be informed.

Good luck mate, I hope it all works out for you :)

Don't ever be forced into anything you don't want to do.

[Oblivion]

Yes it is sexual abuse. Specially holding you down- If you were just too scared to stand up to him, then he could argue it was 'voluntary' but since he actually held you down, it is either sexual abuse or even rape (can someone confirm/deny that?). You really need to tell your and maybe his parents so then he will stop. He is most likely doing this to others, and he need to stop now.

[saced]

See that is the thing, his parents wouldn't care a single bit. If they did, I would be very surprised. His parents are very messed up, not to be mean, but it is the truth.

[Oblivion]

I would advise telling your parents, maybe the police, and just plain staying away from him.

[wazzler7999]

u could

1. tell an adult as every1 said

2.beat him up or if he trys it again i'd kick him in the balls or something

3.get dressed right away after swimming incase he trys it again

4.if he suggests playing wii, in front of parents suggest an adult plays with u or play it in a crowded area or just dont play it