the friend problem

[redfox]

ummm im gay and so aremy 2 friend (on is bi ) i like both of them and they want to do it i want to but i kinda dont im not sure helpp

[japanman]

Well if your not sure tell them that becuase you might not want to.

[Electric Cheese]

Be honest with them. If you don't want to, tell them. If you do want to, make sure you're both comfortable with it, because this is the sort of thing that can ruin friendships if something goes wrong.

[Gavin]

Well, if you Don't want to do it then simply tell them no and that should be it

[Axellance]

hmm thats a tough one i personally think that i might not be a good idea to have group sex(or sex with more than one person at a time if u dont consider three a group), but if u want to that is up to you. Obveously you are having second thoughs so why dont you pull them aside and say "look guys i dont know if i am ready this so is it okay if we delay it for a while so i can be shure im redy" this way you dont throw the idea out the window and you get some more time to decide weather or not it is something u want to do. this is totally up to you so i cannot tell you weather or not you should but i do think you need some time to think about it. if it turns out that you are not redy just tell them that you are not redy and that you will tell them when u feel like you are. if they are true friends they will understand and let you take your time so that you are ready.

[theOperaGhost]

If you're having second thoughts about it, you aren't ready. Just do what Lance said. Tell them you don't think you are ready to, but leave the option open in case you become ready for it.

[curiousteen]

its ur choice if u want to do it or not cause they cant make u do it. u can speak up for ur self and say no thank u i dont feel comfortable.

[Requin]

It's your choice, your life if you don't want to that's fine. If their true friends they'll understand, sure they will say that your too scared and stuff like that, but they'll get over it. If not, fuck them! :-)

(Not literally, you know what i mean)

[notsure101]

Be honest if you dont want to dont if u want to go ahead

[KornKobz93]

As long as ur ready and protected then i say Okaaaayyy!

[dogman]

if your not ready, then dont do it, however, if you do feel you are ready, make sure u use protection

[kerry]

tell them you are not ready and will consider it in later life....
also if you want to use protection