wat the hell

[notsure101]

last night i was sitten on the computure and my mom yells in saying did u eat this chocalote bar i tought she was talking about one of thos ice cream sandwiches thing and i said yea beacuse i did have one then i came out to see wat she was talkin about she was talkin about a hersheys bar and i said no, but i found a the wrapperon the floor or on my desk because i rememember waking up and i found it so i walked out and threw it out and now she said im grounded until i tell the truth and i didnt eat the freakin thing and she said im grounded until i tell the truth. soooo im i supposed to lie and say i ate it? because ill be grounded for ever if i dont lie about lying and now i ahve huge bruises on my arm now i have to hide them because she'll ask me how i got them and im not a tatletale and ui have three 50 cent peices

I hate my mom and how protective she is i cant even have bruises without her askin were the hell i got things from! wat the hell wats with here



Should i lie to her about eating the bar wen i really didnt

i mean im really starting to get depressed and ready to commit sucied with the way she is!

[thesphinx]

Just tell her that you truthfully didn't do it and that is all you can do.
Is there anyone else you can talk to about this (your dad, grandma someone)?

[iJack]

Grounded for eating the bar of for "lying"?


Id tell her that she is overreacting and she needs to calm down. I would also buy her another chocolate bar.

[notsure101]

first off i dont have much money :) and i live with her only

[byee]

I think you have an issue here with your mom that's far bigger than the mystery of the missing Hershey bar. I think this might be a good opportunity to address that.

Suggest you and she sit down quietly and discuss your bigger concerns with her, that she doesn't trust you, that she's overprotective, etc. Give examples, be calm, and let her know very clearly how depressing this is for you. Try to use the current situation as an example, try to have her see that she's overreacting and unreasonable and difficult to live with. Don;t focus on the grounding, that's unpleasant for sure, but really irrelevant. The bigger issue is getting her to see the bigger issue, don't get bogged down trying to prove you didn't eat the Hershey's.


Hopefully, if you do this right, if you talk calmly about the bigger issue, she'll be able to see how inappropriate her punishment is. If not, just accept it, and keep talking about the larger issue of trust, etc., and how you feel.