embarresing moments....

[tsmichael]

yesterday i had a couple of friends over at my house to go swimming. once it got dark, i heated up the jacuzzi. im 15 years old and i am a late bloomer. all my friends were like "dude how much hair do you have under your arms" and i was like uh... idk and they made me show them and they all laughed at me because i had none. when i was changing, my friend accidently walked in the garage and saw me, butt naked. i have no pubic hair, and my penis is still very small. i overheard them laughing about be in the other room. im so embarresed with myself. i dont know why i havent started puberty. is something wrong ? i saw something about an xxy chromosome, and that you will never hit puberty. i know no one that is my age, or even near my age that hasnt hit puberty. ahhh whats happening !??!?:confused:

[Brandini The Great]

you may need a doctor to tell you exactly what the deal is. you might just be late though

[tsmichael]

you may need a doctor to tell you exactly what the deal is. you might just be late though

well i had a physical a month or so ago, and he checked me out down there and he said nothing was wrong, and that everything is how it should be.

[Brandini The Great]

ok then i guess you shouldnt worry although that would be embarrassing. i personally dont know any 15 year olds that are prepubescent but if your doctor said your ok i'd take his word for it

[tsmichael]

ok then i guess you shouldnt worry although that would be embarrassing. i personally dont know any 15 year olds that are prepubescent but if your doctor said your ok i'd take his word for it

i mean, i have some pubic hair... in the past year, ive only gotten probably 30 hairs... i also have like 3 stands of dark coarse hair under my arm... ive had these since i was like 12 or 13... im too embarrest to ask anyone though..

[theOperaGhost]

I think you're fine, but if you still haven't hit puberty by the time you are 16 or 17, something could probably be wrong. You might just have like really low testosterone levels or something. You can go to a doctor and get something to increase testosterone. I think just wait another year before doing so though, because you could just be a late bloomer.

[Sugaree]

I don't think that going to a doctor will be suitable.

Your friends obviously think it's funny that you are a late bloomer. IT's all fine. Everyone has a different time table of when they grow and their bodies mature. Puberty last until your early twenties so you have plenty of time.

[theOperaGhost]

I don't think he needs to go to the doctor yet, but if he still doesn't think he has hit puberty by the time he is 16 or 17, he should go, because something could be wrong. Even if puberty lasts into your twenties, you should start by the time you are 16 or 17.

[tsmichael]

well i have girls that want to have sex with me, but im scared that they are going to laugh at me because my penis is like 2 or 3 inches when erect. you were saying something about the doctor giving me testosterone ? how do i ask for something like that ?

[Sugaree]

If they laugh at you, then they aren't any girls that I would want to be with. If you don't think you're ready for sex, then don't have it! But if you think that you are ready, then make sure you use protection (i.e condoms)

[theOperaGhost]

I'm not advising you to get testosterone until you know for sure you are just not a late bloomer. Like I said, just wait for a year and if you still don't think you have hit puberty, go talk to your doctor about it.

[Jesse]

It's ok dude. I'm a late bloomer too. I don't really have that much hair anywhere (Besides my head :p). Although, because my friends are not childish, they don't laugh at me. They understand that I'm a late bloomer and there's nothing that I can do about it. A few of the girls I've been with think it's "cute" that I'm small down there. You're friends are immature to laugh at you, and if a girl laughs at you for being small down there, then she's not good enough for you. She should like you for who you are, not how big you are.

[notsure101]

your just a late bloomer thats all

[BlackBetty]

I agree with an above post, if you have not hit in about 1 year go to the doc. Your friends are just plain flat out imature. They nede to help you instead of laughing at you.

[byee]

Whoa! You do NOT have XYY! (Klinefelter's Syndrome). Good golly.

Every piece of fruit ripens at it's own rate, and you need to stay on the tree a bit longer. No problem there.

Your friends, on the other hand, could use a bit of manners, here. It was your house, and your Jacuzzi. Guys can be very insecure, and this can come out (very meanly) as being competitive. You have other things right now to offer (like that hot tub!), and your nice personality. There's nothing wrong with you physically, your doc told you so. Don't hang onto this.

[Axellance]

of u had abnormally slow development your doctor would have noticed and suggested therapy for it, your fine dont stress out about it. Your friends are verry immature for treating you like that, and i personaly think u are to young to have sex although that is your coice any girl who worries about your peanis is someone you shouldnt be with anyways. Alot of girls dont like there guys to be hairy so ur safe there.

[tsmichael]

thanks guys. that really helps. i just dont know how to be open about that. i mean theyre always talking about how they have had oral sex and stuff. if they say "why dont u get it" i cant just say "because i have a small penis and im embarrest by it". oh well. your right. there isnt anything i can do about it, besides wait.

[underoath12192]

I have a friend who's 16 (17 in January I think) and he still only has hair on his head and that's it. So, you're not the only one.

[kerry]

yesterday i had a couple of friends over at my house to go swimming. once it got dark, i heated up the jacuzzi. im 15 years old and i am a late bloomer. all my friends were like "dude how much hair do you have under your arms" and i was like uh... idk and they made me show them and they all laughed at me because i had none. when i was changing, my friend accidently walked in the garage and saw me, butt naked. i have no pubic hair, and my penis is still very small. i overheard them laughing about be in the other room. im so embarresed with myself. i dont know why i havent started puberty. is something wrong ? i saw something about an xxy chromosome, and that you will never hit puberty. i know no one that is my age, or even near my age that hasnt hit puberty. ahhh whats happening !??!?:confused:

don't worry u r probably a late bloomer
:cool:

[Θάνατος]

Well obviously he is a late bloomer. I feel for you man, but I want to say your frineds are douche bags for laughing at you. If a girl really cares about u and want to have sex with you then be careful and use protection.

[Texmex21]

definetly a late bloomer

[byee]

thanks guys. that really helps. i just dont know how to be open about that. i mean theyre always talking about how they have had oral sex and stuff. if they say "why dont u get it" i cant just say "because i have a small penis and im embarrest by it". oh well. your right. there isnt anything i can do about it, besides wait.


Well, as they say most guys are liars about their sexual conquests, esp teenagers. Don't necessarily believe what they're telling you. Besides, oral sex the way they describe it doesn't sound like much fun, anyway. You're not missing anything.

When they talk about this, when they spin these fairy tales about their sexual conquests, i suppose the mature and polite thing is to listen but not comment, I doubt they'll ask you about yourself, they seem way too self absorbed.

In life, you'll find that there are 2 kinds of people. Those that do and those that talk about it. People who are self confident and secure with themselves don't need to advertise. And I'm not just talking about sexual prowess, either.

You're a nice guy, don't lose that. Everyone goes thru puberty, you're no different. Until then, just hang in there, and don't necessarily believe that you should say or do something just because others claim to be doing it. Or that you're missing out on something.

[japanman]

woah sam your just chalk ffull of info *whispers in a wierd vioce* awsome

i agree whith you to a good example is my friend forrest and cash

forrest rarly talks about anything sexual or fantisies or things hes done cash on the other hand is a very good friend he always talks about sexual things hes never done.

[LifeIsMyJoke]

ok then i guess you shouldnt worry although that would be embarrassing. i personally dont know any 15 year olds that are prepubescent but if your doctor said your ok i'd take his word for it


That doesn't make him feel a whole lot better I'd imagine.

Being 17, it wouldnt really be right of me to technically know where any 15 year olds are up to in puberty, but my next door neighbour is turning 16 in a few months, and his voice is about the same pitch as a 10 year olds, hes small and doesn't have any hair on his legs ... So you arent alone man, you're just a bit late, theres nothing wrong with that at all.

And there shouldnt really be anything to be embarassed about, even though I know thats easier said than done. But its out of your control, nothing you can do to speed it up, so just counteract your friends taunts with a smart comeback about them.

If you are truly embarassed about it, wear a rash shirt, or even a plain shirt when you swim. If they are relentlessly teasing you about it, then they arent your real friends. If its just a bit of fun, just laugh along, and you will be fine =D

All will work out man, dont worry!

[LifeIsMyJoke]

ok then i guess you shouldnt worry although that would be embarrassing. i personally dont know any 15 year olds that are prepubescent but if your doctor said your ok i'd take his word for it


That doesn't make him feel a whole lot better I'd imagine.

Being 17, it wouldnt really be right of me to technically know where any 15 year olds are up to in puberty, but my next door neighbour is turning 16 in a few months, and his voice is about the same pitch as a 10 year olds, hes small and doesn't have any hair on his legs ... So you arent alone man, you're just a bit late, theres nothing wrong with that at all.

And there shouldnt really be anything to be embarassed about, even though I know thats easier said than done. But its out of your control, nothing you can do to speed it up, so just counteract your friends taunts with a smart comeback about them.

If you are truly embarassed about it, wear a rash shirt, or even a plain shirt when you swim. If they are relentlessly teasing you about it, then they arent your real friends. If its just a bit of fun, just laugh along, and you will be fine =D

All will work out man, dont worry!

[Prince_of_Peace]

I agree with LiveisMyjoke...all thing will work out...patience is the key...

[Patchy]

prince_joel1 please don't post in threads older than 3 months!

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