what should i do?

[ahaham]

k so, There are these 2 girls that like me, we will call them A & B. So we are all pretty good friends. And friend A pretty much just asked me out, but don't really wanna go out with her, i want to go out with friend B. So being the idiot that i am i told her that i'm not really up for a relationship right now. Stupid move on my part. So if i did ask out friend B, Friend A would probably hate me. So what can i do to ask out friend B without hurting Friend A?

[iwasherebutgotbored]

i say you don't go out with either once you break up with friend b things will suck just stick to being friends

[Gumleaf]

you need to either go back and tell friend a the truth, otherwise it would be unwise to ask friend b out because as you've already said, friend a will probably then hate you. if it was me, i would leave it for now at least and keep them both as friends.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Yeah you have to be honest to them but more importantly honest to yourself do you want friends or a girlfriend?

[BeautifulSilence]

So what can i do to ask out friend B without hurting Friend A?

If we're focusing just on this question, and not all the possibilities of losing friends, then:

Talk to friend A in private and explain to her that you paniced because you just see her as a REALLY good friend and you don't see her as being anything more. Then tell her that you are interested in friend B as more than a friend, and ask A if she is ok with you asking B out - make it clear that if she doesn't want you to go out with B then you will wont ask her out, because you value your friendship too much to risk it.

Hope that helps :)

[kerry]

talk to A and explain to her you are not interested and like someone else.
Tell B you like her.:wub::wub::wub:

[byee]

There's no easy way to do this. If you like someone else, the other person will have her feelings hurt.

As long as you're kind, as long as you don't make it too personal, why you choose the other girl, then you're free to date whoever you want.

There's an inherent risk in asking someone out, that they won't agree. There's an acceptance of that risk by the other person (girl 'A'), so on some level, she knows the rules here.

Just be nice, it's important to be nice.

[ahaham]

Thanks for the help guys :]
i really 'preciate it