first girlfriend

[its_just_me]

OK, just got my first girlfriend, i really like her and hope we're together for a long time..

First date was just a look around town, we held hands, didn't kiss. Although i did get an erection for like 5mins when holding her hands, which was uncofortable (didn't notice though, fortunately)

Second date was the movies, i payed her and and got us some popcorn etc, we cuddled through the whole film, we still didn't kiss, although i got a few sneaky pecks on the cheek and so did she. We were both smiling really hard when we left.

Next date is tomorrow, and i was wondering do you think she has lost interest in me already as i haven't kissed her properly yet, and she used to go with guys like 10years older than her so they must have been pretty confident. I don't want her to think i'm a shite kisser and dump me or anything but i don't want her to dump me because i didn't kiss her at all.

I've been feeling really queasy ever since she asked me out though, like i'm really overweight, and overeat quite a bit. But our first date all i ate was half a macdonalds, second date i bought a pasty but just couldn't eat it, had nothing all day that day. Is that just my nerves?
All I've had today is a pack of blueberries and a bit of pasta/raveoli, and now i'm eating some raspberries. And i'm struggling, but i know i NEED to eat something, but when i try to i feel sick.
Any advice on that?

Am i in a lose lose situation, or should i just go for it. Any advice?
Thanks in advance...

[Zephyr]

I wouldn't worry about kissing.
It will happen when you least expect it, when your both ready.
If she is the one who asked you out,
It was obviously because she likes you as a person,
Not because she heard about any experience you may or may not have.

As for beng unable to eat...
I'm not all that sure.
I would just ride it out, it may go away eventually.
You're probably just a little nervous and stressed over it,
But you should be able to eat again after it goes away.

[its_just_me]

Thanks for the reply, it's great to hear from a women's point of view. I guess the eating thing must just be my nerves as i am really nervous around her the past two days, we are going out tomorrow though so hopefully things will be better then.

(might even get a kiss :D)

[kerry]

awww congrats it is your gf well done anyway ^^^:wub:

[its_just_me]

Thanks kerry :D
Just got a text with an invitation to the beach, I'll try for the kiss there. Any advice how long it should last? Should i pull away after a few seconds or just keep going?
How do i get her to want more?
Thanks

[curiousteen]

if u want her to get more make her feel comfortable and flirt with her.....that is wut i would do.

[Close102]

Thanks kerry :D
Just got a text with an invitation to the beach, I'll try for the kiss there. Any advice how long it should last? Should i pull away after a few seconds or just keep going?
How do i get her to want more?
Thanks

well i dont know if you already had the date but my sugestion would be to kiss her for 1-2 seconds and if she starts to kiss back then keep going till, a. you are out of breath, or b. she pulls away. bring breath mints or something just in case. you may be making out all night.

[notsure101]

Wait to see wat she does if she likes u enough go for it

[Fiending_the_freedom]

just kiss her and if she kisses back just go for however long feels right (not too long thought if you start to think about other things its long enough XD LOL)
and she asked you out, hun you got nothing to worry about, she likes you the way you are :P have fuNn!

[japanman]

Rep+ teagan-kun hmm now ill give you more respect by saying tegun san

Bring tic tacs wih you if you do kiss

[byee]

awww, good for you! Just relax here, there's no timetable for kissing! You'll both know when it's right, and until then, just enjoy eachother's company and forget about it. If she didn't like you, she wouldn't be smiling as much and obviously enjoying you as much as she is. As a P.S. you can usually tell when she's ready because she'll sorta get real close to you, your face, and look into your eyes. And wait.

With regards to eating, you'll be of no use to her or yourself if you pass out from hunger, so eat something! If you're concerned about your weight, this is a good time to rethink your diet, which doesn't mean starvation, but rather a rebalancing of what you eat, plus some exercise. Love's a great motivator for change.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

oh! btw, if she plays with her hair, its kind of a way of flirting:P

[Nihilus]

Well congratz on your first gf ( I have never had one) and I would worry about kissing. When the time is right she will let you know.

[the_guy_123]

about you felling sick thing when you eat just eat and if she doesn't like you for what you are get a new gf sooner or later youl find your perfect gf (hopefully)