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kerry
May 31st, 2008, 02:38 PM
wether you are bi, curious, straight, and lesbien or whatever your sexuality is . :confused::confused:

ktkurbst0mp
May 31st, 2008, 02:44 PM
It varies.
Everyone, and i mean everyone is curious.
Whether they want to admit it or not, everyones had feelings for the same sex before.
It's part of growing up.

What really makes you "gay" or "lesbian" is what you do with those feelings.
Some people experiment with the same sex, which is completely normal.
But if you choose to have an on going relationship with someone of the same sex, that normally means you are gay.

However; this does not mean it won't change.
Things happen during puberty that won't always be the way you will follow your life.

ShatteredWings
May 31st, 2008, 03:23 PM
um, there's a sticky for this yaknow

NextToNormal
May 31st, 2008, 03:33 PM
there really isnt a determined age when you find out your sexuality. its not like you get a postcard in the mail saying "FYI, youre gay or straight or anything" lol
some of my friends knew they were gay since middle school or earlier. others didnt come to accept it til after they left for college. its different for everyone. like, im going into my senior year and i am just coming to terms with my sexuality.
trust me, you will find your sexuality in time. youre only 13 give things a chance to straighten themselves out (hormones) then you will probably be able to figure it out if you havent already/

ktkurbst0mp
May 31st, 2008, 03:35 PM
BTW: the sticky is for how did you find out.
Not when ;)

MoveAlong
May 31st, 2008, 04:19 PM
I agree with ktisxareject, it varies. I was 12 when I noticed, and a lot of people are starting to notice in their teens, yet some people don't even think about it until they're adults!
But if you're thinking about it now, as a teen, you'll probably have it figured out by the time you're an adult, or when you lose your virginity

notsure101
May 31st, 2008, 04:33 PM
there really is no age at were u really relize

Mr. Smithers
June 1st, 2008, 11:46 PM
There really isn't a set age.

Most of the time it is usually when you are a little older in your late teens you know for sure. Because when you are just starting teenage years you may just have thoughts or just curiosity.

ssgliberty
June 6th, 2008, 08:15 PM
like everyone else said there realy no set age you just know after awhile just think about it :D

Nihilus
June 6th, 2008, 10:32 PM
You will know when puberty is over for you so there is no one particular age that you know

TheBlackRose321
January 16th, 2011, 06:17 PM
It all depends I was 13 but could be earlier or later in your life.

Skeptical Bear
January 16th, 2011, 06:26 PM
I think it started in 7th grade, which is 13 or 14 years old that I noticed that I was Bi. Not %100 sure but I'm happy with my sexuality.

PAfarmerkid
January 16th, 2011, 07:14 PM
Everyone is different. I personally knew I was very curious bout 2 years ago when I was 13, but I was still questioning if I was straight or bi. I still have no emotional feelings for a guy yet so I still consider myself straight, but it could possibly change.

Nathan_B
January 16th, 2011, 07:24 PM
depends on the person, the age varies. For me, I've always known I was bi, I'm happy with that because I get the best of both worlds ;)

sieg
February 9th, 2011, 11:12 PM
i noticed when i was around 10/11/12 that i dodnt like girls the way the other boys did

Fourth Dimension
February 10th, 2011, 11:32 AM
there is no specific age it could be 12 it could be 18 it vairies from person to person

Shadowhunter
February 10th, 2011, 03:24 PM
I agree with the others who said this.....there is no exact age you figure out youre sexuality..everyone is different..so you could feel like youre bi/str8/gay at a variety of different ages.

Kaius
February 10th, 2011, 03:34 PM
Despite this being active for just under a month it's a 3 year bump so :locked: