Am i bi or gay???

[nik14]

Well, it turns out that i think that i like guys. i dont want to spend the rest of my life with them but i want to have sex and know what it feels like. i also like girls. i also want to have sex with them but i dont know if how i feel will do bad things to our `relationship´. i wanted to do it with most of my friends, but i didnt tell them anythings because they´ll think that im weird. i also wanted to do it with y cousin thats the same age as me.
:(please help!!!:(
:confused:what should i do?:confused:

[Close102]

well it sounds like you are bi. you might out grow it and this could just be from hormones. if not just be honest with your friends if you feel it is nececary. if they make fun of you for it then they aren't really tour friends. they may treat you weird at first but they should get used to it. also one more thing, don't try to keep it to much of a secret because then it will spread as a rumor.

[MoveAlong]

if you only want to know what having sex with them feels like, and just want to try it out, you are only curious. You don't sound gay in my opinion.

Are you attracted to guys? Like, here's how I assure myself that I'm gay:
Open a magazine. Which page do you stop on and take the time to flip back to if you accidently flip the page too fast? The shirtless guy, or the girl in the bikini?
I look at the shirtless guy

If you look at the girl, you're straight. If you're intersted in both, it's safe to say that you're curious, and possibly bi. Maybe you should explore your sexuality more, rather than worrying about it

I belive you should just put those urges about your cousin out of your mind

[Antares]

well since you are technically confused then I think it should be moved.

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Justwondering]

If you cant see being with them in a relationship, then your not bi/gay (There is nothing wrong with you if you are..), Your just curious, Im 15 and recently just went through the same thing. I have been curious for about 3 years and have been hinting to a friend for 3 years, finally it happened, and its good to know what its like, But be careful because doing it with friends could ruin a relationship. But basically you cant really tell right now with your hormones and such, Remember its the most confusing time of our teenage lifes so just wait out the storm.

[notsure101]

Well You should trie different relationships and see how it feels

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i think u r curiouse

[kerry]

you are a bi person . if you were gay you would physically,mentally and emotionally love men

[george]

You seem to me to be more along the lines of being curious.

[curiousteen]

hey ur bi cause i feel the same way

[nik14]

thanks...i really apreciate it.

[LifeIsMyJoke]

I think you are just curious man, am I right in thinking you are 13-14, possibly 15 years of age?

This is generally the age when young adolescents are trying to straighten out their sexuality, excuse the pun, and many boys and girls alike akin to experiment to attempt to determine what their sexuality is, whether it be heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual or asexual.

If you are emotionally attached to men (as well as physically and mentally), then you are gay, but if the vice versa is the case, you are straight. Simple as that =D

Good luck!

[Trewjuls]

I don't think you're gay but you might be bi. It's all up to you but at this age I would call it curiosity.

[nick]

I dont think any of us can tell you whether your bi or just curious. Its sounds a little bit more than normal curiousity to me, so my guess would be that you are guy. But there's no real need to decide on a label, or a category, too quickly. Just stay relaxed and it will be come clear in its own good time.

[BeautifulSilence]

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