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mixedupfool
May 29th, 2008, 11:33 AM
like if two girls started making out, theyre not lesbian
theyre still straight

but when two guys make out, theyre branded with gay for life

like i dont get it, girls experiement like that all the time, but when a guy does, bam! youre gay.

why?

Atonement
May 29th, 2008, 11:37 AM
Women are typically much much closer and more personal with eachother. Whereas men, can't get too close. Also, in society, I believe women are much more open to homo/bisexuality, and men have to be tough and normal.

Sugaree
May 29th, 2008, 11:40 AM
We can be bi. But not to the extent that women can.

Malcolm Tucker
May 29th, 2008, 11:45 AM
Men, more teenage boys, are over prejudicial and tend to jump to the conclusions faster. I believe that if a girl saw two bisexual guys making out, they would be ok with it. But if a guy saw the same thing, they would start with all the "queer queer" stuff. As a bisexual myself, I have only come out to some girls so far, as I know it would be of no avail to tell a guy, because girls tend to be more sensitive, and respectful of others' sexual identities.

notsure101
May 29th, 2008, 08:46 PM
Girls are much closer then guys personally thats why we have tons more post on Guy's puberty then girls guy's dont want to talk about this stuff with their friends unlike girls. :)

Justwondering
May 29th, 2008, 08:55 PM
Girls are much closer then guys personally thats why we have tons more post on Guy's puberty then girls guy's dont want to talk about this stuff with their friends unlike girls. :)

Exactly, And btw!, I love you quote, That is one of the best scences ever, makes me laugh just thinking about it.

Antares
May 29th, 2008, 09:01 PM
Because guys are usually stupid and immature and assume everything that likes something "out of the ordinary" is gay.

MoveAlong
May 29th, 2008, 09:04 PM
Women are typically much much closer and more personal with eachother. Whereas men, can't get too close. Also, in society, I believe women are much more open to homo/bisexuality, and men have to be tough and normal.

I agree

bloo ppl
May 29th, 2008, 09:13 PM
i hate stuff like thats why im scared to tell any of my friends that im bi(i kno can say it here b/c i highly dobt any1 here has met me)

mr.sexy_bomb
May 29th, 2008, 11:42 PM
i know i am bi and my guy friends r always like that although they never meez with me like that specially my guy best friend

Dragonite
December 29th, 2008, 11:04 PM
Guys can be bi I'm bi unless i'm mistaken
I am bi but I want to be with a guy when I get married

mr.sexy_bomb
December 29th, 2008, 11:19 PM
yeah i am bi and like above i wanna get marry with a guy

please help me 69
December 29th, 2008, 11:25 PM
not saying anything about bi woman but sometimes (usually) they are really slutty because they can get both so usually slutty girls are bi, note: Usually

Cindex
December 29th, 2008, 11:33 PM
not saying anything about bi woman but sometimes (usually) they are really slutty because they can get both so usually slutty girls are bi, note: Usually
It's kinda true. Not that anyone who is is going to be or anything, it just happens a lot.

I know a couple closet bisexuals, and they aren't sluts. But then there's the sluts...... We have tons of them....



I think guys are branded so fast because other guys are cruel, sadistic creatures. We prey on others.

Maybe because guys think girls making out is hot? Well a lot of guys do. I do. Girls sometimes like to see guys make out. Met a few, but not an obsession or anything.

Guys are also very insecure, and secure themselves by making others fall off.

please help me 69
December 29th, 2008, 11:37 PM
wow i thought everyone would get mad at me for saying that cool, and i too love seeing to girls kissing

and i think gay is kind of general as in if a guy like a guy hes gay even if he also likes girls


or if he then go's out with girls after going out with many guys, people thinks its because theyre trying to cover it up

pizzamon
December 30th, 2008, 12:16 AM
I agree please help me 69 that's messed up that there are different standards for guys and girls

please help me 69
December 30th, 2008, 12:34 AM
im straight but i agree it is so bad that they should be labbeled like that its just shocking

Neverender
December 30th, 2008, 12:46 AM
Because guys are usually stupid and immature and assume everything that likes something "out of the ordinary" is gay.

my thoughts exactly. thats why i wish the world was like VT, with a complete understanding of this stuff.

Whisper
December 30th, 2008, 01:19 AM
Guys can be bi I'm bi unless i'm mistaken
I am bi but I want to be with a guy when I get married

Please don't bring back old threads

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