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emecrazy
May 28th, 2008, 02:32 AM
me and this kid clicked right away first day i met him i spent the night at his house
now.. he is a total druggy... and... he is different.. i moved.. and he hasnt called me.. never texts me... and he promised he would change cause we all ready talked about this.. he is to busy with drugs... idk what to do cause ... we have good times and we are so close... but..
he cant keep a secret... choses drugs over me .
ahh... but when we do chill we have the best time and he can be a good friends... ahh idk what to do:(
Rutherford The Brave
May 28th, 2008, 05:56 AM
Just consult him on his drug problem, he could possibly be wanting your opinion seeing as your his best friend.
ScotsGirl
May 28th, 2008, 06:17 PM
He needs to get help with his drug problem. I dont know your situation, but if there is something you can do that can help him kick his habit, then you should do it.

Sometimes, to be a good friend, you have to be cruel to be kind.
He may not thank you for it right now. But there will come a point when he will realise and appreciate what you did for him.

I hope everything works out alright!
Good luck
xxxx
shikachunin
June 30th, 2008, 01:04 PM
I would dump him. If he can;t commit to stopping drugs, how can he commit to you?
kerry
June 30th, 2008, 02:33 PM
Just consult him on his drug problem, he could possibly be wanting your opinion seeing as your his best friend.

Exactly talk to him ! :rolleyes:
Maverick
June 30th, 2008, 03:22 PM
He already did.
he promised he would change cause we all ready talked about this..
lxl
June 30th, 2008, 04:19 PM
communication is the best way to solve problems :)
it may be hard, but keep pressing on and help him, but don't pressure him too much it may get out of hand
just go with your guts and don't let frustrations and anger that comes along the way cloud your judgment
byee
June 30th, 2008, 06:57 PM
All you can do is tell him all this.

Then, listen to his response and see if it's acceptable to you, if you can make a choice about what to do.

Every rose has it's thorns, as they say. You have to decide if the little stickers are worth the beauty and enjoyment of the rose. Sometimes it is (if the 'thorns' aren't real major and don't get too much in the way), and sometimes it's not.
MrPinnick17
June 30th, 2008, 08:03 PM
Maybe he wants to call you but doesn't know how.