What`s wrong with me!?

[crasher6]

Ok here we go. I`ve only known this girl for about 2-3 weeks. We`ve been on 2 dates so far and have both enjoyed it. We didn`t kiss on the first date as we are both really really shy. Last Saturday, I had my first kiss with her. Before I kissed her, I knew I loved her but I was too shy to say or do anything. That night, we didn`t pay attention to the movie at all, we just kissed each other all night long. We even went so far as to getting a little sexual with each other through touching.

I truly love this girl and I know she loves me. I would die for her without hesitation. I would do ANYTHING to make her happy. The only problem is that everytime I do something wrong, I always end up thinking that I`m a worthless peice of trash. Why would she love ME when she could have a better looking guy and not some overweight, depressed guy as a boyfriend. We talk on the phone 24/7 and we can`t stop waging the "I love you, no I love you more!" war.

I always try to think positive....but I always end up thinking negative. I don`t know what I would do without her..... I`ve told her how much I love her and what she means to me. I`ve told her that she`s the light to my dark world, that she guided me back onto the path of happiness.....she`s my angel and I`m constantly afraid I`m going to lose her.....what`s wrong with me?

[Gumleaf]

there is nothing wrong with you. i feel the same with my girlfriend sometimes. she is so beautiful and popular and why would she want to be with me. but then i think that there must be something in me that makes me appealing to her. you obviously have qualities that she finds appealing about you, just keep reminding yourself of that.

[bubukitty]

That's a simple fix, did she say she loved you? yea so she loves your ass for you, so quit worrying about it. Have a good relationship,and if you spend the whole time worrying about you won't enjoy it now will you?

[Rutherford The Brave]

Well, In my opinion everyone one gets worried about their significant other. Its just natural and there really isn't anything wrong with being protective, Im still protective of Noor. Although she is preganant, not like shes going to pull off any shenanigens.

[bubukitty]

watch juno much?

[Fiending_the_freedom]

if you keep putting these thoughts into your head then your going to drive her away. my ex , my first love would start to say "i dont deserve you, you could have anyone you want etc. and after a while of him saying htese thigns it made me not want to be with him.

if you know that she loves you, CHILL. SHE LOVES YOU. she doesnt need anyone eles she wants YOU. you have to stop thinking so much and just be happy with her. =]

[Medical Kid]

um so WHAT if your overweight? she likes you for YOU, looks arent everything dude, consider yourself she isnt a shallow little witch who would dump your for being overweight, really nothings wrong here!

[byee]

First, congrats on your relationship. There's nothing like love.

I don't think there's anything 'wrong' with you, iIthink you're 1) Just appreciating this relationship and how great it feels, and 2) You're probably pretty unhappy without one, or maybe even in general.

I think you might just try to enjoy her and what she now brings to your life, and try to avoid thinking too much about the 'what if's'. Right now, things are great, you're happy, and things look good! Why put a damper on it by worrying?

If they should change, you might feel sad, but the important thing is that you learned something, that relationships are good, that girls like you, and this can happen all over again, there's now something that you once missed, but can have.

But just stay with today.

[Rutherford The Brave]

watch juno much?

Don't make fun of me. I was just trying put things in perspective for him.

[Justwondering]

Its totally natural for one to be worried or protective of your mate, espically if they are the one you truly love and cannot be without. Dont worry so much or you'll never be happy, She clearly likes the qualitys in you so dont change a thing, Be Your Self!


KGTM,
How is Noor doing, Probaly think its weird of me asking lol, but I read one of your posts in the R&D before and was just wondering how you guys were going along.

[curiousteen]

hey ur in luv dont put negativity in it, thats going to create more negativity and ruin ur relationship.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Actually she's tired, she's getting a bit big (not being mean, she's pregnant after all) but she's more caring, I don't know if its the hormones b ut she makes me breakfest before school. Helps me with my laundry and helps me walk around with my cheast and all.

[crasher6]

Thanks for the replies everyone, I feel a LOT better now. I talked to her about it and she said she was thinking the same thing. She said that she had always thought "Why would he date me when he could have a taller girl?" and started crying right then and there. I promise with all my heart I`ll never leave this girl, no matter what. =]

[Justwondering]

Im glad you feel better Crasher6, Im glad Vt could help and thats what everyone is here for, dont forget to contribute back to the Vt community :).

KGTM, Glad to see you guys are happy together, You two are very lucky to have each other.

[ScotsGirl]

Thanks for the replies everyone, I feel a LOT better now. I talked to her about it and she said she was thinking the same thing. She said that she had always thought "Why would he date me when he could have a taller girl?" and started crying right then and there. I promise with all my heart I`ll never leave this girl, no matter what. =]

Im glad you talked things over with her :-)
I guess we're all guilty of letting our insecurities make us question ourselves. It helps to talk about them as it allows you to be re-assured :-)
I hope everything works out for the best.
Good luck :-)

xxx

[richard001]

There is nothing at all wrong wif you, you love her, and you are just insucure, it normal wif a new realtionship, if yove only know her for that short period of time then you dont realy know her that well, so maybe you should talk to each other and get to know each other better and over time you wont fel as insucure no more..!

[Tyme]

You have to be comfortable with yourself before you can share yourself with another person.

Good luck with the relationship.