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Sunny But Cold
May 26th, 2008, 11:58 PM
hey, feb 11th i posted a story about my girlfriends parents being major assholes. well. if you read the story, you'll know the jist of it. anyways,

last month (apr 8) i dropped her off after she was at my house. she texted me and told me she was going to have a shower. so i said okay, it usually only takes her 15-20 minutes. anyways. this time iw as waiting well over an hour. i was kind of worried. later she messeges me and tells me she really needs me. i was just thinkin she was just saying it because of missing me or whatever, but that wasn't the case. i asked her wat was wrong and she told me something happend. so of course i insisted she told me. after a long enough time of convincing she told me. he sexually assaulted her in the hallway after she came out of the shower, made her go down on him in the hallway, go into the living room and watch him have sex with her mother. this is not a lie. this all happend that night. she told me that and i freaked. i insisted she get outta there and i could be there in 2 minutes to pick her up. she wouldn't do that because she was scared. that's' when i knew i had to take it upon myself. i went over there and told her to come out. but she wouldnt'. i tried convincing her for 10 minutes. but that didnt work. so. i had to leave. while i turned the corner, there were two cops sitting in a parking lot at a building. my heart raced. and i drove in and parked. i go out of the car, walked up to the car and asked if i could talk to one of them. and i did. i told them what i was told and showed them the messeges. they took all my information and copied down exactly what she had told me in the messeges. the cop told me to go sit down and wait in the car for him. he had to go make a call. he came back and told me he made a call to his head chief and there was another three officers on the way. he told me to make my way home and he would contact me personally. he got my number and on i went. all this was about 11 pm. while i was in the cop car, i was messeging her and saying i was sorry and everything, because she walways told me never to say anything about it and she will when she has the courage. the cop also got me to call her and try and get her to leave. but she wouldnt'. so, i went home, and the whole time i was wondering around waiting and waiting. i didnt hear from her because she went to bed. and then at 2 am i found out. the officer called me and told me that they went into the house and got him out of there because they asked her about the messeges. he told me that if she says they are true, they're going into get him, and ofcourse, she said they were true sothey went in and got him and he is being charged with sexual assault. sexual interference, sexual interference with a minor, incest and something else. he also told me that the mother was being charged too. um, that if i wanted to, i could go and get her, but not while her mother was there. so at 3 i ended up going over there and picking her up. she called me while the cops were there and she was in her room and she thanked and thanked me and everything, i was thinkin the whole night that i was going to get dumped because of what i did. but boy was i wrong. that turned out to be one of the best things in my life i had ever done. now. after almost 2 months, she is living here at my house, and things are great and could never have been better. he is still in jail and the mother is out. but, when i walked up to the cops. i knew everything had to come out then. then the next day we had 2 detective show up at our door at 9 am and we had to go with them to the hospital and the police station, she had to get a sexual assault kit done to prove the statements. having to leave her at the hospital was the worse thing ever. after all that, and then being together, and then just having to leave eachother like that. we both were in tears. the cops understood and let us have our space for a while. i couldnt stand leaving her. then i didnt see her again till 7 pm. and that was 1030 am when i left her. man was it brutal. i hate remembering it but, look at everything now.

there we go. thats my story.

Mzor203
May 27th, 2008, 12:26 AM
I'm glad everything turned out well for you. Telling the cops was the right decision, you've got a good head on your shoulders. Many would have completely lost it in a spot like that.

Hyper
May 27th, 2008, 12:35 AM
I just hope that guy stays in jail for a long long time..

And of course a happy life to both of you, especially your gf

iJack
May 27th, 2008, 12:39 AM
You did great! Most people would have frozen up, you didnt, and that really helped your gf.

Techno Monster
May 27th, 2008, 07:23 AM
:groupwave: YOU GO MAN!!!

Medical Kid
May 27th, 2008, 10:36 AM
I agree, you've shown true courage there, and even so your gf will love you for this, and so will her parents.

Underground_Network
May 27th, 2008, 10:54 AM
I remember reading your initial story/post.. It's great to hear that she's with you and she doesn't have to worry about that creep any more... You made a great decision, most people would've had no idea what to do in your situation. I'm glad you helped out your girlfriend, it's obvious she's very grateful.

byee
May 27th, 2008, 11:34 AM
WOW! That's quite a story! And, most importantly, it demonstrates real strength of will, courage, and genuine character on your part. You acted really responsibility in a high-stress situation and stayed with it to the end! Not surprisingly, your judgement served you well, goodness prevailed, and I'm really glad the story has a happier ending then it otherwise would have.

Thanks for the update, and thanks for thinking of me. And keep up the good work.

Sam

thesphinx
May 27th, 2008, 12:18 PM
Good Job I can't even imagine the courage it would take to do something like that especially when someone doesn't want you to tell anyone what happened.
You did the right thing good job.

Rutherford The Brave
May 27th, 2008, 02:14 PM
*trys to shove a congrats cupcake through the modem,ends up making a mess,gives up* Wish I could have gotten that cupcake to you, you deserve it.

curiousteen
May 27th, 2008, 04:49 PM
wow thats a great story. and good choice of wut u did

BeautifulSilence
May 27th, 2008, 06:24 PM
Many kudos to you, man! You did GOOD :D

Nihilus
May 28th, 2008, 12:04 AM
Wow. What you did was the correct thing to do. In cases like that its always good to go to adults or the cops.

Camazotz
May 31st, 2008, 01:12 PM
Great job taking responsibility.

Justwondering
May 31st, 2008, 01:53 PM
Good job, You did the right thing and you are a very good person and im sure she is grateful for it.

Zephyr
June 1st, 2008, 12:29 AM
I remember you telling us that.
I'm so happy things have turned out great = )
You did the right thing, and the brave thing by going to the cops,
Most people wouldn't have.

Jacob1071
June 12th, 2008, 08:26 PM
*trys to shove a congrats cupcake through the modem,ends up making a mess,gives up* Wish I could have gotten that cupcake to you, you deserve it. wow it still works after cupcake in it. Anyhow good job thay was the best possible thing you could have done

kerry
June 13th, 2008, 02:45 PM
what you did was the correct thing to do . well done :wave:

hobo
July 3rd, 2008, 10:13 PM
great job dude, absolute best thing you could've done. you've got brains and balls.