top friends bullsh!t

[lxl]

yeah so one of my close friend (was BBF or watever) and i had a fairly good school year you know... yeah we didnt talk much and stuff but i thought everything was cool you know?
but like not too long ago he had his myspace top friends (the first one) as me, but when i checked like 3 days ago i was like the 6th person...
yeah i know its so stupid to be worrying about a crap like that but idk i thought we had something special in our friendship, but i guess he moved onto other friends
i dont know just someone give me some suggestions or advice how to deal with this... it really annoys me to think i was the only one thinking he was my best friend but not the other way around

[Sugaree]

It's really disappointing to see that you are worrying over how he put you as a 6th best friend on myspace. It shows that you may be a bit clingy to him maybe? It's nothing to get worked up about.

Maybe he's making new friends. But this doesn't mean that you have to be all freaky over how he made you a 6th best friend on myspace.

[Techno Monster]

Just because your not his number 1, dose not mean he still dosen`t like you relax. :)

[thesphinx]

yeah top friend on myspace doesn't mean anything as long as he still likes you in Real Life there is nothing to worry about right?

[The Batman]

The way my myspace is set I have my family first then my friends in random order so maybe that is what your friend is doing.

[lxl]

ah geez well yeah but i tell my friend just about everything, but lately he's been hanging with someone else and you know since then we started losing contact and next thing you know the other friend of hers is like the top first
you know what i guess it's not a big deal and stuff
but just makes me feel bad ya know?

[Gumleaf]

i personaly think that myspace is bullcrap, but anyways, just because your not his top friend doesn't mean that he doesn't still consider you a good friend. ranking in a myspace page has nothing to do with real feelings.

[Serenity]

yeah we didnt talk much and stuff but i thought everything was cool you know?

This is how I've found Myspace to work: the people you spend the most time with are the ones in your top friends. If you haven't talked much lately, it doesn't surprise me that he would make his first 5 people that he talks to more. The fact that you're still on his top friends at all indicates that yes, you two are indeed still good friends, so chillax. Just because you're not number one doesn't mean you guys aren't still cool, it just means there are other people in his life that he talks to more than you. That's just the way things go sometimes- just because you guys are close doesn't mean your his only friend or his closest friend, but you're still friends and that's what counts.

*shrug* if it bothers you that much just ask him. Just say, "Hey so I noticed you moved me down on your top friends...are we still cool?" Easy peezy lemon squeezy. Just don't get yourself worked up into a panic over something not panic-worthy :daisy: